Sorry Goose, I respect your status, love your photography skills, but you're wrong in your handling of this. Yes, the girls should and must be respected but so should your fellow senior punters. There's nothing gained by anyone, including the girl, in creating a bunch of drama where it previously didn't exist. You (with or without mod help) could have easily made the pix go away with little or no attention, which is in the best interest of the girl and the forum. I haven't been around as long as you and many others, but sometimes you get a little irrational, most recently with not enough replies or comments to your posts and "quitting the forum" and now this. I understand where you're coming from in wanting the to protect the interest of a girl you've developed some sort of relationship with (friends as you say), but you didn't have to sell out a senior forum member. You should have addressed it directly with him when you noticed and not by blasting neg Ks. If he ignores you, take it up with the mods, and if no action, then call him out in public. Instead, it appears you discussed it with the girl and possibly the agent (unless I've misunderstood something) and then lambasted him with accusations of lying with relatively no proof of anything. This is a case of "he said, she said". While the OP may have breached the trust of the girl (which is not proven by fact) you breached the trust of the OP by your actions (revealing the girl and possibly the agent, circumventing the governance of the forum...the mods, and blasting away without any consideration for his status on the forum). The OP of that post seems reasonable when confronted with the other side and doesn't have a history of violating the "trust of the girls" in the past.
Again, we all know you're the man, you get special privileges the rest of us only dream about. Don't be a dick. | |
