Reply #33 wander's post
My cyber penpal JackTheBat obviously felt the same way, as he moved up the RA food chain, the RA's he slapped on his pics would move up as well. While it disappointed me I couldn't have access to some of the forum's favorites, I understood how he felt. I decided to clown him on it anyway, and as I moved up the RA food chain, would tell him it's "time to kick up the RA to [one level past my current status]" 
Jack's POV, and while I don't disagree, it's probably unenforceable anyway in practice, is that you have some absolute bozos who game the system to get to RA 30, 40, whatever, and he doesn't want whatever he shoots ending up, say, on ISG. Not on his watch, but I've tried to convince him you can't6 sanitze everything, there will be risk in any pic he posts.
We all see the girls looking for different things out of it. to me, I prefer my own space most of the time, and it's cheaper and less complicated than dating. Others, it's more complicated.
I have mixed emotions about how this got handled. There's a lot of lose/lose in how I feel about this, and maybe it's better to keep that internal. I will say that there was way too much ego and bravado and too little common sense displayed in this incident. | |