this thread moves like the shinkansen!
can't keep up...
@ gonuts: bro, yr not ready for the fisting. find some social circles and start talking to women as people, not any SPECIFIC woman, just some u have sth in common with. no agenda. just talk. don't stare at their tits. talk to 'em. women share info w/each other, and u don't need great convo skills, just be polite, smile, listen, comment. not easy at first but experience is what u need.
i used to have a lot of premature ejacs, until i learned how to relax. there ARE specific things (like pull out and let it back off while u dine on some attentive cooze), but it really is, as SEAJ says, mind over matter. sex is unstructured FUN, not a contest. relax. if u can be comfortable with yrself sexually, u won't need any weird sprays or whatever.
but u WILL need condoms that fit. awhile back, here in HK, they were selling some called "Big Boy" with (i kid u not) a horse's head as the package-graphic. i wd have bought a 3-pack just for fun but u had to get 12, and i had no idea how well they'd fit. i know which ones fit me, and i either get them on USA trips or via condomania.com. one thing: if u do order condoms (or anything) delivered from overseas, make the total less than US$50. it used to be that pkgs under that value cd not be opened by customs. the ONLY time i ever had a pkg opened was when i got over US$50 in condoms from that site. it took over a month, i was emailing the company, where's my order, finally it shows up, sliced open, with official "HK Customs" tape all over it and a note saying it was opened for inspection. the site sells adult toys (stuff u find at the Temple St market). so who knows. but u can get them mail-order, and browsing the site, it's clear they offer different-sized condoms. don't obsess over yr dick-size. get the condoms that fit and you'll have more fun!
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