Originally posted by happyfeet at 12-11-2011 23:46
... How do you rate yourself
and
do you thing it has any baring on how girls that you pay for treat you? ... Interesting question
you see, I RATE myself as becoming less attractive as my hair goes grey, falls out, and I get lines on my face. What I see in the mirror is certainly not attractive to me.
but to my surprise I'm getting MORE attention from civvies ... in spite of going around talking about my lack of availability and commitment to SO, and not having cash to flash on bling ... So while I'm not going to rate my own attractiveness, after all one girl will say "yum" while another says "yuck", I can positively say my attractiveness has increased.
Does it affect service? Yes, in some cases definitely yes.
But not in all.
There are still some cynical hardboiled girls out there who are unmoved even by my looks.
Even in business, chemistry does matter,
and as we know, a girl who's enjoying her work will be much more engaged in it than one who isn't! |