Originally posted by wander at 15-10-2011 19:49
We fuck other women... Be a man, shut the fuck up, and live to die another day.
I'm afraid I have to agree with this comment. 100% agree...
sure we would all love to lift the "burden of guilt" etc... blame the circumstances. F*ck that... providing our SO is not at risk, suck it up and be a man. If your SO is at risk, then you need to find a way to deal with it that does not include "sorry honey but I think i gave you an STD because I have been screwing WGs".
We need to consider our families, especially kids, and other Bros especially punting buddies who could get dragged down if we don't keep our mouth shut.
Ok so maybe it sounds hypocritical saying "be a man and say nothing", after all... we are all cheaters... however the punting part is a path we have all chosen for whatever reason so it's a given. We do it. Once you accept that, what remains is how many "other" people we want to put at risk / hurt. You come clean and every mate you ever had a drink with on a Friday night after work will get grief... whether he's a punter or not!!!
Protect our SO for sure... But find another way that doesn't including spilling all the beans and potentially hurting family, friends and punting buddies. |
