Reply #1 simplyme's post
As a newbie monger earlier this year, I too was scared just like you to 'reject' a girl.
But you live and learn.
There are several reasons to reject a girl:
- She is not what you expected (in terms of looks)
- B&S where the other girl is of as good or even higher quality than the one you asked for, but you have your heart (or in this case, your penis) set on the girl you asked for
- Plain B&S where the other girl is of considerably poorer quality
Effectively, you just call up the agent, tell the agent that you do not like this girl and want to see another or see you next time or maybe later (or just simply walk out).
But what is MOST important is to treat the girls with respect. When I reject a girl, I smile and apologise to the girl I've rejected. If I'm told to wait in the room while another girl is brought up or while the agent is calling, I try to strike up a general conversation.
Don't make them feel like they are ugly/worthless - make them feel human. Just apologise generally (e.g., sorry - or in Cantonese; deuih mh juu) and either walk out or stay in the room striking up a conversation.
Sometimes, I have even gone to the rooms and asked "Are you [insert girl's name]". If the girl is honest, she'll say 'no'. I ask her who she is (on the DB) to make a mental note if I want to see her again - and ask if she knows [girl I asked for] or where her room number is or where she is.
Depending on the girl, you'll get good info. Make her smile and giggle too, even if you've rejected her.
In the end, you have to remember you're taking a service - and you want to be satisfied. Whilst the girl is obviousyl trying to make money, it shouldn't' be at your expense.
Go for the one you want, just remember to treat others with respect.
This is how I feel - bit of a long post, but I hope this helps you drum up courage to reject any girl that you obviously do not want to spend time with. | |
