Do NOT come clean
Bro, dont come clean - very few relationships survive it. "Thinking" and "knowing" are two extremely different things. She can live with "thinking" and wondering if you cheated.., she might not be able to live with "knowing" you did.
If you have Herpes the clinic can confirm quickly. It is the type of virus ((as we all know) that stays with you forever and can occassionally come back to an active state - so YES, you can claim that you must have picked it up years ago. Google it - you'll see that it is a very common virus and that the actual complications caused by it are typically very mild - in fact, most people with herpes never shown ANY active symptoms. You can even go on the "slight' offensive and wonder if you caught it from your SO.
I had a rash once that freaked me out. Clinic confirmed it was just a yeast infection (bloody hell what good news that was!!!). Anyway, my SO got a rash aswell and though I am convinced that it was I who brought it into the house, she was convinced that it was HER. (Yeast infections being a fairly common thing for a gal to get from time to time). She was very apologetic and embarrased.
So, the rule of DENY, DENY, DENY holds. Just my opinion.... | |
