My Secret? I've repeated it 100 times. But again...
For those that have read many of my posts and reports, this will be repetitive. But it is key.
My "secret" for having so many of these "girlfriends" is less about "me" and more about WHO I punt with, and HOW I punt:
1) I REPEAT often with the same gal. If you are the type who doesn't repeat (which is fine, do as you wish) don't expect to ever get this kinda GFE where they throw freebies at you, turn into FBs, or whatnot. You have to build a relationship and it takes more than an hour session to do so.
2) I punt, almost exlusively, with FREELANCE BARGIRLS. To me, and to them, the barscene is more "normal" (like a one-nite-stand) and the girls less hard-core (they see a few guys a week versus 5 or more a day. BIG differance).
By repeating with bargirls I have already set myself up for success. You spend time with her in the bar to see how you click. You are having fun and chatting and getting to know each other before ever hitting the bed the first time. The ones where there is no connection are tossed early. So you see, I've already filtered the gals down to those that are enjoying themselves with me (or are damn good and faking it). As I repeat more often we get to know a lot about each other. I enjoy learning about them and I suppose they sense my genuine interest. They feel safe and comfortable.
Freelancers have no schedule, but are free to meet you whenever and for however long they wish. Overniters, nooners, a weekend. They are very open to relationships and boyfriends to get them out of the bar for a while (too open, in fact, as they fall into "girlfriend" mode VERY quickly if they think you have potential).
These two facts likely account for 85% of my success.
Yes I am fit and trim; yes I am somewhat wealthy; and yes I am a triple-A-rated-lover (hehe). This doesnt hurt, but I dont disclose my wealth to them nor do I "dress to impress". With the gals I am just nice, funny, respectful, a good fuck, and interested in them and of "us" having a good time together.
So, an easy secret: REPEAT WITH BARGIRLS. And be nice. | |
