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wander

5-10-2011 14:13
Once a Working Girl, always a.....

Once a Working Girl, always a...,

We all have heard a million disaster stories of Bros falling for WGs only to be screwed over in the end.  Emotionally, financially, ruined families.., etc. Etc.  Yet, new Bros seem to keep going down this path thinking their situation, their girl is different.  Unlikely.  I, myself, fell head-over-fucking-heels for one.., but luckily never allowed it to make me do something foolish (but I thought about it!  Had a messed up head for a while as I fought off the demon).

I know some say it is unfair to to say all WGs are untrustworthy.  But...  I have come to think that most of them who stay in the biz for more than a very short time do indeed think different than the average non-WG girl.  They become like us, in fact!  If they were males they would be punters.  I am not saying we are bad people who rip people off, but one thing that all of us are (that have SOs) is unrelentingly unfaithful.

I now have several regulars (all WGs initially, though some turned into FBs now) that have become married, engaged, or are living full-time with boyfriends yet still meet me regularly for a quick secret fuck.  Some paid, some not.

I am writing this now purely because a recent event triggered the thought.  I met a regular yesterday who begged to see me quickly as she had "big big news!".  We meet, she excitedly tells me she got engaged last nite to some gweilo.  So happy!  We fucked for hours!  Not 12 hours had elapsed since her boyfriend proposed.  She's a sweet, happy, little ball of fun and I have little doubt she treats him like her king when they are together.  But she has absolutely no hesitation to jump into the sack with me (and others) the minute his back is turned.  He'll learn this one day and I am sure will be quite shattered by it.

Case 2:  Last spring I screwed my sweet Joann the day after her wedding, (!!!!!) and I  still see her weekly up to this very day.  We're even planning a little 2 day getaway together.  In this case, she plainly told me, "I don't love him, but he is a decent man who takes care me and my family.., you wouldn't marry me so I married him".  He'll discover her secrets one day...

Case 3:  A former WG, Helen, is still using me to help "train" her live-in boyfriend to fuck her better (secretly, of course - I coached her how to push his buttons to get him to do what she likes.  It worked!! And she screwed me to celebrate how much better he has become!  Haha).  She LOVES sex!  Her only fear, like us, is getting caught - not a concern that she's doing wrong.

And on and on and on!  

At some point these gals become like us - simply not equating sex and love like most girls do.  They get married for security mostly.  Tricking the guy into thinking her love for him is eternal and he's the only one.  But they are completely willing to fuck-around on their SO without much guilt just for fun or to earn an extra bit to buy that new mobile (or whatever).  I see it and have been the other-guy (likely one of several) over and over and over.

The gals who try the WG life and exit quickly (within months) are the ones whose personalities do not let them go down this path.  They escape likely never to try again and probably become faithful spouses.  The rest??  I think they essentially become female punters --  but given they are hot gals they don't need to pay.  Just hit a bar and wait for us.  

The one gal I went crazy for, Joann, I realize I would NEVER trust if we were together.  (Nor would she ever really trust me).  And for good reason both ways.  

So..., I merely hope this little post might help a Bro who is smitten to treat the relationship as it is - fun, sweet maybe, sexual as hell probably, an ego boost most likely....., but nothing more.  Have fun but check your heart and wallet at the door.

UsernameTimeCreditsReason
SEAJ 5-10-2011 14:37 Karma +3 Kudos! Timely reminder/quite accurate/honest analysis. Sorta sad tho!
Petay_1283 5-10-2011 14:38 Karma +4 Dr Phil of Wan Chai lol
DaBestHK 5-10-2011 15:16 Acceptance +5 phenomenon not limited to WGs. you'd be surprised how many decent civvies do th ...
season 5-10-2011 16:20 Karma +2 Original
kordoroff 5-10-2011 17:53 Acceptance +1 Excellent
sirtiger 5-10-2011 20:44 Acceptance +1 wander is just a big stud!! that's why! haha
halfclover 5-10-2011 20:45 Karma +3 Wow, amazing details here
thebigz0 5-10-2011 22:02 Karma +1 Totally agree, have had some similar experiences. Feel bad for the guys...
ernieb 6-10-2011 00:46 Acceptance +1 tks for the wakeup call =]
doghead 7-10-2011 01:49 Karma +2 Women's psychology is fascinating on how they go about justifying it all.
UncleBob 5-11-2011 05:22 Acceptance +1 Insightful and true
2zzh22k20 5-11-2011 11:30 Acceptance +2 Been there done that! Preach on bro!
coqhk 5-11-2011 14:34 Karma +2 Lucky guy.




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