Originally posted by SEAJ at 19-8-2011 22:30
Further to my PM reply to you "....Reaching the next level shouldn't be too much of a problem for you..etc"
Just had a re-think on your comment; I think you're missing the point I was tryi ...
Hey SEAJ, no problem. I do understand your point but here is my explanation for why I generally do not thank members when they give me K's for my reports (others may have different reasons but here is what is going through my head).
I am very thankful whenever I receive any K's from members. It does show to me that they too appreciate the time and work that I put into my long-winded reports. But I am hesitant to outwardly express my gratitude within my reports after getting the K's because I am afraid that they think that that is the primary reason why I write the reports. I'm not going to lie to you and say that I don't care if I get any K's or not but I will say that I write reports mainly for another reason.
And what is that reason? I like people to get recognition for the good that they do and the bad that they do. In this case, the people are the WG's. If I thought that the WG was a nice person and gives good effort in their service, I would like all of you guys to know it so that she would get what she deserves - more business. And vice-versa, if I thought that the WG was rude and does not try to give good service, then I would like to let you guys know this so that you can save yourself some time and punting funds and she will get the business that she truly deserves - no business. I'll give two examples of the above. My report on Yo Yo in Sham Shui Po was very positive even though she was a MILF. By our conversation, I could sense that she was a really nice person and the service that she gave me was more than I would expect for $380 (two shots). On the other hand, my report on Yo Yo (same name) but in Kwun Tong was very negative because she provided one of the worst experiences I ever received and at the end she did not appear to feel bad about it at all. I mean, she HJ me while watching TV and didn't realize I had already shot because her eyes and attention were so focused on the TV. I may as well have done the job myself.
I guess I take the "don't ask for K's" one step further by not giving thanks for them because I am afraid that I am only thinking about getting K's. I know that most of you probably do not agree with me on this but this is how I felt and I will make a note to change that.
And regarding the "not giving K's", I thought how it works is that when you give K's, it is deducted from your total of K's. So I was afraid that if I kept giving away too many K's, I could even drop back to be a rookie/newbie. So I guess it is my misunderstanding. |
