Guys, I like a BJ as much as anybody but it is very rare for me to finish from a BJ. In fact there are only 3 times in my life that I was able to come just from a BJ. Two times was with 2 different GFs and one was with a WG in Angeles City. The problem I have is that after maybe 5 minutes of BJ (I mean 5 min of the part of the BJ where they're bobbing up on down, not all the foreplay licking and kissing part) I start to feel guilty about how long its taking and I know I'm not anywhere close to finishing--and then its a vicious circle because the feeling of guilt is a turn off that makes it take even longer to finish.
I think that if I could get over the guilt thing I'd enjoy the BJs even more and be more likely to finish. Any thoughts? And please don't suggest that I do some DATY or make the girl come first because I often do that. In fact this past weekend I probably fingered and DATY'd this WG for 15-20 minutes and 2 orgasms before she gave me a BJ and I STILL started to feel guilty about how long she was working on my BJ. And no, I don't have any religious baggage or abuse issues in my past that could be responsible. I just want to be able to fully enjoy my BJs!!!
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