Reply #1937 yazoo's post
Yazoo ... what's your life story? You married? Single? If single, I say this type of communication and thought is ok, but if you're married, doing this would most likely get you divorced, either initiated by your SO or by you.
Are there good people working as WG's? Sure there are, but the chances of them not lying to you is pretty slim. Everyone has their own percentage bearings. For you, you think she's 99.9% for real, which means there's the 0.1% that she's faking it. You have to gauge for yourself. Like love (even with civvie), there's no such thing as a sure thing. As Hollywood terms it, you have to take a leap of faith.
As for her, this is a typical story of a poor girl from poor village being sent off to work, which happens all the time. Realistically, if she can latch on to a rich guy, even if he was an asshole, it may be better for her, as her future kids won't have to be in the same situation as her if she was to go down the "happy poor life" route. | |