Reply #15 UncleDad's post
Agree in starting slow, but anal play and anal are two completely different things ~ UD! The act of putting one's fingers in someone's anus is completely different from sticking a penis inside of it. A lot of girls know this too. Even for small penises, it's at least 3-4 times the size of an index finger. Even for us gents, once over 40, we're still scared of going to get our prostates exams because of one measly finger, but imagine a penis up there?? 
You'd have to do a lot more than just starting slow. I once coaxed a Changping sauna girl into anal with a lot of explanation on how to make anal sex enjoyable. Like you said, start slow, some kissing, then lube, then 1 finger, then play with pussy, then 2 finger, then play with pussy, then 2 fingers in bum and 1 finger in pussy so that her mind correlates anal play with clitoral stimulation, and then after she's actually not clenching anymore, I proceed to sticking my lovely penis in her poop shute. But it's a combination of both starting slow, and communicating to the girl exactly what's going on.
The worst are the brothers that rips into a girl without any foreplay and not enough lube. Ends up ripping the girls asshole in half, and ruining it for the rest of us anal lovers forever. Bros, if you dabble into anal sex, please make sure you do it nicely to the girls, so the rest of us fans can enjoy anal as well!
On another topic, does anyone know any hot female urologists in Hong Kong? Mine is an old male that's a little rough on my hiny at times. I would love to find a female who is nice and gentle. Then again, would I want to pop a boner when I'm getting my prostate probed??  | |
