Reply #9 ergosum's post
Well, it looks as if you ARE a careful and thinking young man eager to set your life on a proper path. And so, if you don't mind, I'd like to offer you a few more fatherly type of advise.
You will find, as you progress through life, that there ARE many things that are more important, bring you more joy and will be so much more fulfilling AND REAL than to just merely satisfy your basic "natural instincts." Sex with a WG IS great but it can only satisfy your sexual need - nothing more.
Yes, sex - and the need to get satisfaction - is a very powerful instinct; but you will also find that it pales in comparison to the true happiness that you will find from other things in life. I am talking about a family, children, marriage, love and even pride of accomplishment as you progress up the career ladder.
If too early in life you allow yourself to be dictated by the lure of sex and succumb to satisfying such by going the easy route of paying for it, IMHO, it will be a lot harder for you to ever in the future be able to fall truly in love; you will not have the drive or even inclination to properly pursue your mate as "the lure" will no longer be there for you to excel in your pursuit.
Why bother with all the nonsense that a civvie relationship entails - when in the end, us males just want - and need - to get into the female's pants?! Why not just pay for it?! Well such an attitude will definitely lessen your chances of ever forming a proper relationship with a proper girl.
And it is only a proper relationship with a proper girl which you will find WORTHY of you - that will spur you to the success in life you need to achieve. Going too early in life to a hooker will so badly screw up your outlook on life, relationship, family, achievement, career etc that I strongly urge you NOT to start mongering now. There really is not much chance of turning back once you've partaken of the joys of sex; a truly strong instinct which you can and should tailor-make to suit your direction in life.
Wait till you HAVE achieved a certain amount of success in your career (+ money!) and a stable solid family life before you spoil yourself with your just rewards. You will then NOT feel as if you've compromised or taken away from what you need to FIRST accomplish in life, by then you REALLY will be able to enjoy mongering the way a lot of us enjoy it.
Just my POV and like I said, I hope you don't mind me offering it to you as advise
SEAJ
[ Last edited by SEAJ at 22-7-2011 16:27 ] | |
