Are you sure you want to monger?
So what is mongering in my terms?
There is no fine definition of mongering, but mongering means in my terms to go further then you need to(in a bad way).
Why I started this thread?
I started this thread to help people that aren't sure if they really want to go monger or not.
What you need to know!
I am not pushing you to go monger or whatever, it's all your own decision in the end.
Some things you really need to know before you start with this hobby:
Disadvantages :
- A. Your chances of getting diseases will increase if you don't do it safe
- B. Mongering cost money
- C. People will think you are a pervert if they find out
- D. ... (other none pleasant things)
Advantages:
- A. Your needs will be satisfied
As you see I personally wouldn't recommend you to do this hobby since there are so many disadvantages in contrary to the advantages. But well we are all men and to be a real man we don't care about that ... If you have a wife or girlfriend please reconsider what you just thought. If your wife or girlfriend finds out you pay for girls , there is a 90+ percentage chance you will break up and that's not the only thing, she might tell your family and friends what you did to her and your social life will be pretty ruined...
Some young guys will think , I have a girlfriend(that had sex before) but I haven't. And you don't want to disappoint her of your skills, should you go monger? My advice is No, don't do it. If it is your first time don't mind to tell her that, I am sure she will be more then happy to guide you to the magical world of sex.  and really this will cost you NOTHING 
I have a wife(with kids) /girlfriend, I love her but I don't feel attracted to her anymore?
This doesn't mean you have to go pay girls or whatever you are planning to do, if you do really love her you should tell her that you want something new, you could even start a chat with her to tell what you want. For example: some sexy clothing, roleplaying ,play with toys,... If you're girlfriend is open minded she might even suggest for a 3p with her friend ... She just didn't tell you because she won't know how you would react  Just try anything before you go into this hobby. Because once you come to this side of the world, you won't be going back!
My advice for newbies that haven't done mongering, think before you act!
I am single and don't care about social life, should I go monger?
Well nothing is stopping you for monger in my way of thinking. But you should always keep track of how much you spend so you don't go bankrupt before you know it. This hobby isn't cheap!!  | |
and really this will cost you NOTHING 
Just try anything before you go into this hobby. Because once you come to this side of the world, you won't be going back!