Several brothers have suggested active participation of your GF by introducing a threesome with a WG. I have some experience with how this kind of scenario can play out, but of course every woman is different and YMMV.
After moving from US to Asia and experiencing (and loving) the dark side in Bangkok, I had an ex-girlfriend (I'll call her "L") that wanted to get back together come visit me. We went on a short holiday to BKK and I don't remember exactly how it came up but she said she'd be curious to try a threesome. So I took L to Utopia (high-end soapie place) and asked the manager if we can go into the room together with the girl I pick. At first he said no, but once I offered to pay extra it became alright. L and I checked out the line up and agreed on a model and went up to the room. To make L more comfortable I even told the WG that we could do everything else but I wouldn't be having intercourse with her. So we had a fun and exciting session. It was an amazing experience having both L and another hot sexy girl in the tub all together. I even made them touch each other a little but mostly the attention was on me. I finally finished from a BBBJ by the WG. L was excited by the whole thing and we had really good sex back at the hotel that night. All in all, this was a highlight memory from my life.
Well, L and I did not get back together but stayed in touch once in a while. And after a while passed she told me that she had started to feel kind of grossed out about what we had done. A few years later we met up for coffee when I was back in the states and she said she hopes I'm not still going to those gross places in Bangkok.
Sooo, I guess what I'm trying to say is that even if your GF seems open to trying something like a 3-some, there is a chance that it could backfire on you down the line if she starts feeling bad/gross about it. If you do explore this path, perhaps its a good idea not to bring in a WG, but instead go through something like craigslist and look for a civvie girl interested in a situation like this. I think it'd be a bad idea to expose her to the darkside as it would, at minimum, open her eyes to the world of temptations available to you and I don't see how any girl would not become more suspicious of your "golf weekends", macau trips, and late nights out.
Finally, as one other poster mentioned, if you go down the dark path do not EVER tell your GF that you have been doing this kind of stuff. Doesn't matter how guilty you feel, just suck it up. You may think you "need" to be come clean and admit what you've been doing but that's BS and just plain selfish (hoping admission will make u feel less guilty). In actuality, all you will do by admitting your activities is destroy the trust between the two of you--and you will still feel guilty. But in addition, you will now have a much larger problem of trying to salvage the remains of the relationship where you just dropped a bomb. | |
