The advice you are getting here is good my friend, my advice is the same "don't cum in your own pay packet" that is just plain fucked up and you will likely get yourself messed up badly. I have had similar opportunities but as tempting as they are I really dont think it will be worth it. When you play, do so as far from home as you can, the little things can bring you undone. Let me give you a couple of examples:
1. I had a unbelievably good FB far from home for several years, she knew my situation accurately (no false promises) and I knew hers and all went well (me=married & children), her single. She hooked up with a guy and our relationship stopped for several years & she married the guy (telling him all about us). A couple of years later she gives me a call and wants to hook up and I'm a little concerned but very keen (she is unbelievable between the sheets), assures me she will be discrete etc. We have several excellent adventures together BUT she is not as careful and clever as she thinks and is busted by her SO who calls me up for a chat... understandably he is upset (to put it mildly) and threatens me with all kinds of deadly violence not to mention a few calls to home. I just about had a heart ttack when I realised what was going on. Pure luck helped me to avoid the dreaded calls home and subsequent fall out.
2. Hooked up with a delightful SYT for several years, again she was unattached but lived in the same city as me. Like the previous relationship she understood my situation and I was very clear that there was no long term future for us in the picture under any circumstances. We had a brilliant time, travelled a bit together and fucked like rabbits. Only issue was over time she was looking for more, we talked a number of times and she bad a bunch of ideas which were outside our understanding and I told her i wanted to break off the arrangement - well there is no more bitter, angry thing than a woman scorned, that is for fucking sure brothers. Again, I was unable to avoid the poison call home but only through a lot of sweat and serious manouvering. That one aged me a few years I can tell you.
My point is that no matter what you agree up front with a FB it always gets more complicated and you can get fucked over in the blink of an eye. Silent numbers, short notice holidays, etc will only keep your secret for so long. If you do a girl from your office while you are in a position of authority AND married you are fucking crazy unless you don't care about your job and relationship - you have a lot to lose.
The oher thing is that I have told no one about these relationships but I know that both girls have told others about the relationships, just another way to get busted my friends. Gentlemen, it is much easier to pay to play and add in the odd one night stand around the place where possible, keep your dick in your pants in the office, if you have to, then get a similar looking WL to fuck and pretend it's your office girl!! | |
