If you give the durex performa a try (ansell have a similar product, and from a brief trial it seems to work better), be sure to use them half a dozen times to get a feel for them. What I mean is first time I used them, I hardly noticed a difference. After shagging myself silly one week I noticed they would get my dick so numb I'd have serious trouble cumming at all, this *never* happens, it's the only time I've had to work real hard to get to the finish line. It has to be said I found the experience a little frustrating, I'd rather have premature ejaculation than trouble cumming at all, one hour of constant action is too long for me.
As someone mentioned I think the active ingredient in the durex performa needs to warm up - so once it's on, take things slowly to start with, give it five minutes to kick in. Will probably happen naturally, but the numbing gel is at the tip of the condom, so might help to massage the tip a bit so it's not just right at the end of your dick.
I've heard a lot about exercises and mental discipline, but I have serious doubts about their effectiveness. I say this because there are times I haven't been with a bird for a while, yet I take this absolute stunner, use a normal condom, but for reasons completely beyond me I have no problem controlling how long I take. Can go as long as I like, then up the tempo for the finish at my leisure. I have to say I envy guys who are like this most or all of the time. | |
