Reply #14 SEAJ's post
Hey SEAJ
I agree with your caveat about intentions
what I'm saying is I don't get any sense of manipulative intention in Uncledad's post, so you seem to be writing for a wider audience, one that you're concerned about from your own unique perspective.
I'm just writing about your other caveat - the unstated one - which is that if uncledad does not fall into your category of punters who want to score a freebie by resorting to lying and manipulative promises, he should pretty much ignore your worries ... 
He knows his intentions
And only she know hers ... up until that moment where she reveals more of herself to him ...
and that don't happen without some initial degree of trust and communication
I do know a couple, from my professional life, where it was known his wife was formerly a "go-go dancer" - was she anything else as well at that time? did she give it up when she got married? - what I do know is they had a very traditional family life, with lots of kids and a bustling home. Sure it's fraught with risk to get involved with a working girl, but don't kill it just because of what might go wrong.
I see uncledad having fun, having his confidence boosted, and the girls are getting whatever it is he agrees to give them. Let the kids play, I say ... unless I hear otherwise I'm assuming his intentions are honourable. | |
