Ahh, "dating" has a huge range..
I certainly have dated (and currently am), in the sense of seeing a WG in and out of bed, for "free". I usually have one that falls into this grey zone at any given time. But... no matter how much I tell them that I have an SO and this can't get much deeper, no matter how often I tell them that I am slut, have slept with many hundreds of women.., it still happens that the "I love you" comes out and eventually tears flow.
But I dont trust them... I would never be exclusive with one and never marry one.
My current girl I am "dating" is absolutely stunning to look at, smart (a Uni degree), very fun to be with, awesome in bed, and sweet sweet sweet!!! Easy as hell to fall head over heels. I met her as a WG about 2 years ago. We went on a 2-day trip together and had a blast. I have seen her in her home country when I went their for work - again a blast of a time. She is now a DH (only very recently became one) and we've seen each other many times over the last two years. But then the "I love you soooo much!!" comes out. And she would say this so often - almost begging me to say it back with her big weepy eyes. She says she never does WG work now as "I am the only man she wants to touch her". She sounds convincing. I keep telling her I am not available! That she should be looking for a "real" boyfriend. No No No - she will "wait" for me. Christ. (but it does feel good.., yes, the ego gets bigger and bigger each time).
And then I find out, by accident, that she just got engaged to some other Gweilo. WTF!?! I was pissed off just because of the lies. (and yes, I was surprised to learn, I actually felt hurt by it. Silly). Anyway, she tells me she does not love this other guy but that he will take care of her, that's she's 26 and getting older, etc. etc. I tell her it's fine.., I am not available either, but just stop lying.., we can be freinds and have fun. I try to stop seeing her (thinking of the other guy) and she explodes in tears and begs me to stay in her life. I keep seeing her. Later on I meet her on a very short notice request (I had some sudden free time). She meets me and I swear she was dressed like a WG in Neptune. It just didnt feel right.
My real point here is the shit she's giving to this OTHER guy! The guy who does not know his fiance is screwing around on him. I am certain she says all the "I love you's" to him. And he's completely fallen for it, even though she is still screwing me and likely others too.
I rambled...
Edit for a PS:
I sound bitter, dont I? Hehe. I hate to admit that this girl got "under my skin" somehow. I keep tryiing to break it off (it's too frickn heavy) and she begs and pleads and cries..., until I finally cave and we have awesome sex.  The WGs are as good at lying to us as we are to our SOs. Think of it that way.
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The WGs are as good at lying to us as we are to our SOs. Think of it that way.