Reply #1 netlan's post
Most of the guys here, overseas, Taiwan, HK, Singaporean, etc, have heard and/or read stories of ladies in China who marry for the passport before divorcing their man. Yet being typical over-confident guys, all these stories do not keep us away from dating these girls. 
Ironically you are worried that these mainland or HK girls will divorce soon after getting their passport, yet you seem to forget that 50% of all marriages in the USA already end in divorce. I know, I know, you want to minimize that possible divorce rate from mainland girls from 100% to that USA average of 50%.
First, you have to come here and get a permanent job. Second, you should live a very low-key (non-materialistic) life. Third, you have to go date a few mainland and HK girls to get an idea of that vast cultural gap that exists between them and you.
Finally, when you think you have found that right one, you will have to test her by telling her that you intend to stay in Asia forever and never return to USA.  If the girl really loves you, she will not mind that you never return to USA as long she can be with you everywhere. In fact she will be happy as she will be close to her family. But if the girl is looking for a passport, she will be trying every trick, guile, charm to convince you to go home so she can get that passport. | |
If the girl really loves you, she will not mind that you never return to USA as long she can be with you everywhere. In fact she will be happy as she will be close to her family. But if the girl is looking for a passport, she will be trying every trick, guile, charm to convince you to go home so she can get that passport.