I'm a happily married man. I've punted a few times and enjoyed the experience. Guilt does come into effect sometimes, but i think to myself.."you only live once". Do the things you enjoy and do it now. You don't know what tomorrow will bring. You could walk out to the street tomorrow and get hit by a car and die. Then that would be it, life over. Sex is a very enjoyable part of life, enjoy it, embrace it.
But having said that, don't hurt your wife in anyway. Don't ever let her find out, dont bring home STDs. Letting her find out would be the worst if she is the jealous type. She probably feel so inadequate. That she hasn't pleased her man. Also the hurt of the betrayal... i wouldn't dare think what would happen if my wife found out.
If you are worried about addiction, set yourself a budget. But if you are addicted, like you would care about keeping to the budget ...  lol | |
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