Reply #1 Almundo's post
The decision to do "it" or not is of course up to yourself.
But, if you do decide to do it, I'd suggest the following 4 rules to follow:
1. Don't ever let her know, don't ever confess, even if the "evidence" is totally damning; If you ever confessed, then there's no turning back. If you stand your ground that you've never been unfaithful, then she not only could possibly have doubts - but she at least has a straw of hope that the marriage is still worth it. You confess, she'd not have any reason or justification to herself.
2. Don't ever let her loose face - this is important not only for her but also for your family as a whole. Meaning, Don't ever screw around if there is a possiblity that her friends, relatives etc would know. You must want to know that your wife and family have pride - as respect for your family is paramount to a man's responsilbity and duty.
3. Don't ever get involved too romantically with your playthings. They are ONLY your playthings, whether paid for or not - and you don't want your plaything to screw up your family and every thing you've worked for. NOT worth it - and much better to get to a newer/better model if the old plaything restricts your independence in the matter.
4. Make sure you NEVER get any STD's; keep yourself totally safe and if there's accidents etc i.e. broken condoms etc. get yourself fixed immediately.
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