Reply #161 bethpageblack's post
Sorry about that mate, but it is not like we are fossils. The world just advanced sexually in speeds faster than light.
This also one of my stupid personal weakness, I keep thinking what adventures I would have if I was part of the current sexually active generation. I guess that what our fathers felt and what our sons will feel. Guess its the little punter that is in our hearts. For me, I try to compensate this fleeting emotions with being extra respectful and a little passionate with the escort type WGs, but in the same time I am guilty of avoiding giving the same treatment to the walk-up WGs. This obnoxiousness might have been a result of my upbringing, or my brain lying that KTV girls only sleep with customers they click with in contrast to normal WGs who will have 10-15 customer a day.
Is it true that KTV girls only sleep with one each other day? I don't know and frankly I am avoiding the answer so not to ruin the fantasy I live during that punt. I admit its a messed up way of thinking, but alas am a human being with a heart and a dick. can't be Buddha.
@markreyes
I think your points are a clear cut as a diamond, but allow me to say this, regardless of a person's financial ability, there should be a limit of how much you shower a WG. To my understanding, some girls will find it offensive. I found that the hard way once with a WG that had a sense of pride.
I met this girl on the airplane going to Singapore, she was sitting besides me and she looked quite demure. I tried to strike a conversation with her ( I didn't know she was a WG at that time), after couple of mishaps, she started to really open up. Maybe cause I am a foreigner, or maybe cause I was acting like a stupid guy that wasn't interested in her sexually. Got her number and decided to call her next day for a date, I had this idea of getting into her pants by the night by showering her with attention and generosity. But to my surprise, even after I coerced here to stay the night at my hotel, she put boundaries in the bed and didn't take her clothes off.
I thought to my self "ok this girl is not interested in me, but went along either using me or out of respect", I didn't push her, I was quite docile in this part of the date, I never tried too hard, always gave up on seducing a girl at the first hint of rejection (not sure was it because I was afraid girls will ignore me or from the shame of being rejected if pushed). Anyway, the days flow and she called me and asked if had free time to hang out with her, I was happy and my dick saluted, but again to my surprise that date ended up being a false alarm, but atleast I found out she is interested in me, so I thought maybe it was because of my stupid approach? Bear in mind I still don't know she is a WG in a KTV, as I took her word that she is a student.
The days go on, with each time one of us approach the other for a hangout, again never reached the mouth for kiss let alone the pants. But interestingly, we used to talk about WGs in the KTV quite often and she was listening to my opinions with sharp senses. The way I viewed them at that time wasn't something I am proud of, and that might have put her off everytime as I started to notice that she gets upset. Then soon after, trying to put all the clues together, I decided to do some investigations, asked a mms I know in TAM about a girl with her name, and to my surprise, she was a WG there. I asked the girl later why she lied to me, and her answer stroke my like a lighting bolt:
"I didn't want you to look at me with the same way you look at the WGs, I liked your personality, you are a nice and sweat little guy, I wanted to have you as a good friend, have some nice fun, take the pressure of my miserable life. But your views, the way you tried to shower me with money so you can end up in my pants in the night, is the same thing I keep seeing from the disgusting old men that come to the KTV, you kept reminding me of them, and that put me off even when you are a sweat guy. I just wanted a respectful relationship where you respect me for whom I am, an intelligent woman, and not try buying your way to my pants with money. "
Although it was a shock at first that these words came from a Wg, it was a wakeup call for me, started rethinking a lot of my views regarding all women, not just WGs.
Just be careful not to hurt the pride of a WG, thinking that you can buy them happiness with money. | |
