A sticky situation at DG KTV - need some opinions please!
Here is a story from a few months ago and I want to see how other bros see it.
I Went to a ktv in DG one night and picked 2 chicks. I didn't know all of the guys there, just about 5 out of 9 or so.
anyways, one guy (whom I don't know) starts playing hard drinking games with one of my chicks and he was good, so the chick had to drink quite a bit in a short period of time. Soon enough, she starts puking in the bathroom. And then she starts stumbling around the room like an idiot.
She then comes to me and says she wants to leave early and asks for the sitting fee. I said no, and tell her to just sit around first, have some tea, but don't drink any more. But she starts making a bigger fuss, making a commotion like yelling, and being rowdy.
My buddy, a verteran of DG for many years, instructed me to not pay her because she's acting and taking advantage of the situation. He said that she was just trying to make a quick sitting fee and since it was early in the night she would surely find another room and make some more cash.
So then some manager comes by, gets me outside the room, and asks me nicely to just pay the sitting fee as she is drunk and let her go. I said "sorry, I barely played any games with her and I don't even know the guy who was playing with her". The manager and the drunk girl left and never saw them again. Then I went back into the room to be greeted by complete SILENCE AND STARES from all the girls. What an awkward and shitty feeling.....
So, as i analyzed the situation, I figured out that all the girls know exactly what happened (or guessed correctly) and they obviously took the side of the girl. It was just a horrible uneasy feeling of being villified by all the girls. The happy and exciting atmosphere was just sucked right out of the party. Slowly after 15 long minutes, things started to return to normal and people starting drinking and singing again.
I knew I was in shit (i.e. my image was of a complete asshole) so I discussed candidly to my other remaining chick about the situation. I asked her to just be honest and tell me if i did anything wrong. Not surprisingly she said yes. Soon after, I thanked her for her honesty, gave her a sitting fee and let her go home.
I am completely sure the drunk chick was partially acting, though i do admit she drank a fair amount in short period of time. It was very difficult to judge at the time.
It was not about the money at all. What is a mere 200rmb sitting fee? A ripoff yes, but a small price to pay. I would have gladly paid up if I knew the party atmosphere would be killed. First and foremost, I don't want to ruin a good night for my buddies.
So guys, forgive any mistakes I may have made as a newbie.
I'd just like your opinions on this.
(footnote: the night was not all lost. I went to a sauna later, got shit service. And then out of the blue, a chick from another night calls me up just when I get back to my hotel and she came over to make things all better!  ) | |
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