Reply #78 hunter's post
Perhaps there are two VERY general groups of guys:
1) those who view it as simply a fun, stress-release, one-time thing. They don't feel the need for an emotional attachment with her. They are completely happy without it.
2) those who are looking for more GFE and all the feelings that go along with it. They like the sinking feeling. they want that deeper fantasy. In order to get that feeling, you gotta get to know her better, so you gotta do a bit extra - which means hanging out, meals, something that usually requires spending more money and time.
Neither is right or wrong, just how you enjoy the game.
So basically getting back to the original OP question, "is there a need to treat them so well?"..... it all depends on what results you are looking for.
Its sort of like the difference between true friends and acquaintances. Some people want to make friends out of everyone they meet, and others don't mind keeping certain people as acquaintances. | |
