Originally posted by bethpageblack at 15-8-2010 08:46
I'm guilty as charged - I have done it a couple times before. ...
As I suspected, this thread and your question are entirely about you.
It is YOUR perception that there is some unalienable right for a punter to treat a girl purely as a hole for his overinflated dick, and that any punter who does anything beyond the simple pay-for-play contract is somehow to be pitied.
BTW I do agree that there are specific cases of guys being taken for a ride, overcompensating for their diminished egos, trying to deny the impact of their balding grey pates, etc. etc. Akka's list is thought-provoking!
But for you to say that
there's nothing truly special about these chicks that they deserve such nice behavior from you guys
and
It's really unnecessary to shower them with all that attention
so completely misses the point it's laughable. And (the reason I'm writing this response) it's arrogant and condescending of you to put yourself in a position to judge and criticise the actions of a generous man.
Dude: IT'S NOT ABOUT THE GIRLS!!!
It's about the client (punter, john, mark, call him whatever you will).
It's about the attitude HE brings to the relationship.
It's about the feelings and rewards HE experiences flowing from his generosity.
If a guy reading this thread is wondering how he should treat a girl he likes, IT IS UP TO HIM AND HIM ALONE.
And ...
the fact that you want to incite others to stop being more generous than YOU think they should be - in spite of (or more likely because of) being "guilty as charged" - is your shit not theirs.
Bro, let them walk their path. You're on yours, walk it the way you want to, but as you yourself say
... IMHO. We can agree to disagree and that's cool.
And IMHO that's where you should have started this entire thread!! |
