A Parable
There's this Vietnamese cafe server in Little Saigon, Orange County CA, whom I have a huge crush on. The body is just flawless, beautiful face, looks fantastic in her bikini, really cute nerdy smile. (Maybe I should snap something so you can see my excellent taste  ). She also has this aura of sensibility and presence about her which is the sexiest thing of all. But she's like 23, I'm like 50, and in no position to bankroll her right now anyway (cafe girls don't see guys by the hour, you have to do the AGF thing with them, and it's like $6000-$10000/mo, who needs that with all the local pussy around available by the hour) and it's like the obvious thing is maybe you'll get to meet her under more favorable circumstances-in a future life. And why would she have anything to do with me, or anything in common? Let's be real...if I were 25-30 years old and rolled up in something $50K or more, I'd have a shot, but that's not the deal at all, nowhere near it.
Where I'm going with this is that it's a longshot I'd even get her digits, let alone the panties to drop, so why even entertain such nonsense, especially when I can get my pipes thoroughly cleaned for $140-$250 from any number of Korean, Chinese, Thai or VN hotties within a 10 minute drive from the cafe? If you love fucking her, that fine...but this deal is really about the fucking, it always has been, you're just going to get in trouble with that attitude.
I posted this many times on Redbook over the years, I call it the " Paladin mantra": Girls offer a service for a fee, pay the fee, enjoy the service. That's it. Now, you can appreciate her in many ways if she does something for you that other girls don't, but don't confuse it for what it is...her livelihood depends on making you leave the room with a big smile on your face. | |
). She also has this aura of sensibility and presence about her which is the sexiest thing of all. But she's like 23, I'm like 50, and in no position to bankroll her right now anyway (cafe girls don't see guys by the hour, you have to do the AGF thing with them, and it's like $6000-$10000/mo, who needs that with all the local pussy around available by the hour) and it's like the obvious thing is maybe you'll get to meet her under more favorable circumstances-in a future life. And why would she have anything to do with me, or anything in common? Let's be real...if I were 25-30 years old and rolled up in something $50K or more, I'd have a shot, but that's not the deal at all, nowhere near it.