Seriously Jackpot, unless you are this person, or the friend who fucked it up for this guy, you need to stay well out of it. This is between a man and his "long term partner" and has fuck all to do withyou. You are in a no win situation if you give any advice to him whatsoever. And lets be honest here, no man wants help and advice - they just want the easy life. You tell him to go back, and then it goes tits up....you're to blame. You tell him to move on, and he pines for her, and then they getback together - you're to blame. Just support him, listen to him and answer any question with "wellwhat do you think you should do? what would your mum tell you you to do? " and buy him another beer, and then go to the KTV when some little lovely can suck all his cares away.
Also - the friend? If I was you, and I knew who it was, I'd batter the shit out of him out of principal. Unforgivable. Reminds me of when one of my wifes friend's husband told her I'd been seen coming out of a gogo in WC (which I had). I told one of my friends, and the hubbie was sporting a cut lip and black eye next time I saw him - it was the principal - you dont blag or fuck over other men. Never. | |
