Well it sounds like its a lose-lose situation for your friend in terms of telling his long term partner. It seems as though if he doesnt come clean, the friend will do it for him! So, the partner will know either way. What's important is that the partner hears it from her partner instead of his friend... whenever a friend has to exposes the truth instead of the guilty, it always hurts more.
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