The root cause of your guilt is because you dont want to hurt your wife's feelings. That's natural and you will probably get over it as others suggest.
The only thing to be mindful of is the frequency of your punting. For example, if a husband punts once a month then he can probably keep up your sex life with your wife too. But if you are down to doing it twice a week or so, then for the average middle-aged husband, your stamina and sex drive may not be able to keep up to satisfying your wife. This is when problems could arise; wife may suspect something, be dissatisfied (complain, starting bitching etc), may cheat on you etc. So, my brother from another mother, my advice to you is to control the frequency of your punting and you will be fine. | |
