Originally posted by barney.winkel at 28-3-2010 02:22
guys, assuming that you really like an HG who's leaving town soon and you'd like to see her again if she ever happens to be back, is it acceptable (or even possible) to either ask for her contact info ...
I'm sure you've seen the word 'chemistry' mentioned in relation to GFE and generally getting the little extras from the WGs and getting phone numbers is one of these. If she either likes you or sees you as a potential ongoing client back in China then she'll give you her number. Some work in Shenzhen or other nearby cities and some return to their home provinces after working in Hong Kong and there's no standard pattern.
Many who keep coming back to Hong Kong work acress the border. By all measn give them a number where they can reach you but just be careful with this if you're in a relationship or just don't want to receive calls which might embarrass you.
Be aware that some gals might just disappear on you. A lot of them use sim cards that might expire or they change when they move around so don't be too disappointed if you call one day and get a recording saying that the number you've called doesn't have a subscriber or that there are insufficient funds for the call to go through.
To put it bluntly, don't fall in love or get hooked or, as the locals say here, let your ship sink.
Personally I'm selective with giving out my number, but try to get numbers of favourite WGs that I might want to contact, mostly from places that I'm likely to visit in the near future, such as Shenzhen or Guangzhou.
If they're unlikely or unwilling to be in contact they may just take your number and never call, or give you a fake number or they'e using a temporary card and number that expires when they leave here. Its the luck of the draw and some just don't want to be hassled, have relationships back home or are here on a one-off basis to make some quick cash. Good luck! Don't ask me for any numbers as I always promise the gals that I'll keep the numbers confidential. Remember that WGs are also entitled to their privacy and work through agents for more reasons than just getting bookings here. |
