Reply #1 uwotextbook's post
being a virgin at 23 is nothing to be ashamed of and the answer to your question really depends on what you're looking for and the consequences you're prepared to accept.
first off, let me tell you that i lost my virginity at a relatively older age. i was 20, but most people i knew had gotten laid in their teens. i'm not a bad looking dude, but i wasn't the best at charming women either; just sort of in between. i had girlfriends throughout my teens, but for various reasons, i never ended up having sex with any of them.
when i turned 20 and was in college, it ended up being with a gf of mine at the time. but before that, i had often thought about visiting a wg and just getting it over with. personally, i don't have any regrets about waiting until i was 20. in fact, i sometimes look back and wonder, had i gone and paid a visit with a wg and lost my virginity, would i regret it? would i feel bad / ashamed about the fact that i lost my virginity to a wg? an to be honest with you, my answer is yes, i probably would have felt bad about it. but on the other hand, now that i've had much more experience with different women, i can tell you that virginity isn't as big of a deal as it's made out to be.
i guess the question you have to ask yourself is, would you be able to accept the fact that your first time was with a wg and be comfortable with that? if the answer is yes, then by all means, go for it. but do not make the mistake of thinking that once you've been with a woman, all your girl problems will go away. there's a big difference between just getting some sexual satisfaction and being able to deal with women socially and in a relationship. also, would recommend that you start off by getting jerked off or getting a bj before going in for the full service, as other people have suggested. you will no doubt be nervous the first time. i was nervous the first time i went to a wg 6 months ago, which was 5 years after i lost my virginity. there's a huge difference, and someone who's had a lotta gf's and sexual relationships might not necessarily be confident when it comes to sex with wg's and vice versa.
ultimately, it's your decision, and i wish you the best of luck bro. | |
