Originally posted by K20A at 17-3-2010 06:21
I'm often finding it a bit tough accepting her as my gf as many men have fucked her. But at the same time I'm with a relationship with a normal girl back in Canada... So I guess we should all keep ...
this is interesting quote, u find it hard to accept her as gf because many men have fucked her? but have you yourself fucked many girls? i am not here to judge, but just this mere statement makes me wonder whether somebody's decision in her past before she met you have anything to do with you or whether its really none of your business? seems a bit hypocritical to me. also if you are deciding to be with someone, shouldnt the judgement to be with that person be based on the 'here and now' as opposed to the 'dwelling of the past?"
all i am saying is, her past decisions are not your territory, yet if you are to judge her by her past, then you prob shouldnt be with her. but not being able to overlook her past is your problem, not hers. and if she is looking to put that behind her, would it be beneficial to keep that in mind? and unless you are out to date 15/16 year olds, you prob aren't gonna find many that havent had a past with other men.
its altogether a different point if she were to continue being with other men while you are with her, this i can understand. but why can't bygone's be bygone's? |
