One thing people never ever mention when talking about dating or marrying prostitutes is the class difference. This is not a comment on money, but a difference on upbringing. For sure this is more highly pronounced when the guy is western but the girls are usually from the poorest parts of society, and their family values have pushed them into getting fucked for money...by their parents.
Take this girl and no matter how much she thinks she loves you she will find it very hard to adapt herself to your social standing and way oflife. What you think is abhorrent (prostituting your daughter...) has been part of her upbringing. Acceptable behaviour is based on a different level. How to make a relationship work (theirs seem to be tit-for-tat rather than conversation and compromise).
So, speaking from very personal and current experience I can tell you that unless you are 60, dont care, and just want to fuck some young thing for the next few years before you die, then don't bother. Sometimes having no-one is better than someone.
There's an aussie guy whose wedding i went to recently. I recognised the bride because I fingered her in a night club in wanchai about 10 days before the wedding, and she wasn't asking for too much for action but i was time pressed. one week to the day after the wedding I saw her in the club again in the early afternoon, and she was all over me and asking if I had more time this time, and the price was still the same blah blah. I rejected her advancements and said its best we both don't talk about it, but as I walked home I bumped into the hubby. On asking where his wife was, I was told she was at a temple with her friends blessing the marriage. Temple of vice i almost said but left them to it. Dont really know him that well after all.
So, be very very very careful. They may be well manicured and dressed now, but take yourself to the roughest part of town, and ask yourself if you fancy living life with one of the girls from there. Because marry a bargirl or ktv girl and you will be.
Me - 33, good job, deviant but careful, not too bad looking, and contemplating divorce from the girl I once loved but now am not so sure after all. And I would never even consider marrying a girl who has been on the game again. You encourage them to start planning a life and giving them every advantage, and surprise surprise, they change leaving you scratching your head as to where you went wrong. | |
