Hey VG I'm not even going to take the bait on honesty and cheating - quite frankly you're in complete fantasy-land if you think there's any chance of ever predicting who will lie to you and who will not - you'd do better to move into a home in Disneyland than try to survive in the real world with that kind of thinking.
It sounds like you're still searching for a reason to move to Hubei to take up her offer to live with her ...
Better to stop trying to justify it with logic.
Reality is logic says "no, the risk outweighs any possible benefit"
But we know emotion trumps logic.
Go try her out - you'll definitely have an extraordinary experience, have a wonderful time, and maybe even live the life you want with her, happily ever after. The ONLY way you will answer that question is by going and finding out.
But make sure you have an escape path in case you come down to earth with an unexpected crash of reality at some point.
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