To Sum Up
It is well-known that the HIV virus is not easily transmitted during vaginal sex. That is reflected in the generally-accepted statistic that estimates the odds of becoming infected with the HIV virus from one instance of unprotected vaginal sex with a HIV-positive girl as approx 1 in a 1000. That explains why the AIDS epidemic in the West started with gay men and needle-sharing intervenous-drug users. Why needle-sharing leads to infection is obvious; gays are more susceptible because of mucus-membrane-tearing anal sex. Transmission rates are higher among Africans because of the high incidence of STDs and untreated genital infections that permit the virus direct access to the blood stream.
Living creatures have been putting unsterilized things in their mouths for billions of years. Saliva is normally a fairly effective antiseptic. Many organisms have evolved immunity, but the environment that saliva provides is too harsh for infectious HIV particles to remain intact and viable. Furthermore, the linings of the mouth and throat are very resistant to viral infections such as HIV, so infection is unlikely if they are healthy and uncompromised.
So the only way to become infected from a BBBJ from an HIV-positive girl, is if she has a cut in her mouth. The only way to become infected when DATYing an HIV positive girl, is if she is shedding significant quantities of the virus and you have a cut in your mouth. Since you're far more likely to know if you have a cut in your mouth than to know if she has a cut in hers, the DATYist is able to adjust his behavior accordingly, while the BBBJ guy can only trust in luck and hope the girl hasn't recently bit her tongue, or tore her gums brushing her teeth, etc.
In any case, all the reputable sources give the chances of HIV infection from any kind of oral sex as extremely low. You want to eliminate all possible risk, don't do either. But scolding the DATY lovers while sticking your naked dick in the mouth of any chick who says aaahh is not consistent with the facts. | |