I'm with Dartagnan on this. Sex with anyone worth fucking always improves with time, and if it doesn't, it most likely wasn't as good as you thought it was. So if you've found someone really special, all the more reason to see her again.
Being a punter who actually likes women, I'm very much into the GFE - illusion or not. Great sex is always about more than just the wet slap of naked genitals; it's a kind of communion - the only church in which this devout atheist worships. Fucking is my sole link to the divine, and what I crave is the nourishment that only sexual intimacy with another soul can provide. There are those who say they reserve intimacy for the SO and only visit WGs for their bodies, but I think they're deceiving themselves. If all you want is an orgasm, why not just jerk off? There's something about great sex with an attractive girl that satisfies more than just a need to shoot seed. Isn't that why guys always fall in love through sex?
The was this girl Faye Faye in the Fuk You Mansion in TST - a tall, lovely girl from HeiLongZhang to whom I felt a very strong attraction. I visited her 4 times in two weeks. The odd thing was that she wouldn't let me kiss her or taste her sweet twat, and yet sex with her was hugely satisfying. It turned out that she was only there for a few weeks substituting for a friend. She left while I was away from HK and I never saw her again. There have been a couple of others like her over the years. But even with those girls I only see once, the best sex is always with the ones with whom I feel some emotional connection. The sex is great precisely because I like them as people.
And isn't it because mongering isn't only about dicks and pussies that our relations with these girls sometimes become awkward, that we find ourselves having to dance around the emotional complications that lie just under the surface and threaten to complicate things?
But hey, if you're a sociopath, your mileage may differ.
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