Originally posted by kill3r1511 at 17-9-2009 19:12
I asked you bro's for advice. I didn't ask you to bring out your view on Indian stereotypes...
I appreciate your perspective here. I winced a bit at a few of these comments. To be fair, however, you kind of set yourself up for this... After all, you started this whole thread as follows...
Originally posted by kill3r1511 at 8-9-2009 15:27
I'm Indian and I was worried that will I be refused by the WG's? Will I not get the same service as other customers do? As an Indian, I'm quite hairy....
If you start the thread by highlighting the fact that you are a member of a particular ethnic group... and then raise the possibility that -- as a member of that ethnic group -- you might not get the same service other customers do (presumably because of their preconceived, stereotypical notions they have about your ethnic group)... and then make a statement that in effect says all people from your ethnic group are hairy... then you should bloody well expect that other people will jump on the bandwagon and talk about ethnic stereotypes!
But, to answer your question... No, I have no suggestions for HGs. Personally, my experiences with HGs have been pretty lousy, all things considered... probably not because I'm a member of a particular ethnic group (although I have been refused a number of times simply because I am Causcasian), but rather because I don't speak any Cantonese and very little Mandarin. I find that it's hard to have a decent experience without the rudiments of conversation. That doesn't seem to bother some guys, but it's a real problem for me.
It's unlikely that guys here who are not Indian will be able to tell you which ladies might be open to seeing Indians. Frankly, I doubt that question (Do you give Indians the same service you're giving me?) crops up in conversation in most of our sessions. I suggest that you pick a few ladies who look interesting to you, call their papasans, and explain the situation. If you find a papasan who is receptive to your problem (or, at least, perceived problem), then he may be able to make a good suggestion. If not, at least you will have made clear the issue and found a receptive ear, so if you run into any problems, you have some chance of getting a successful resolution. Good luck!
Have fun, CGP
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