First, this post is not directed at anyone; these are just my thoughts on the subject.
We all have personal experiences that have shaped our opinions. However, every situation is unique. I try never to give advice on anything important, because I'm not wise enough, and I do not want the responsibility. Even if the guy asks for advice, all you can say is be careful. I know nothing about this guy, it might be that the girl is perfect for him. He could certainly make a big difference in her life. Or she may be just using him. Who knows?
The Whore and the Monger are two halves of the same whole. To despise these girls is very hypocritical. You simply cannot judge people because you are not them, and you have no idea what circumstances lead anyone to make the choices they have. I am very grateful to have the opportunity to screw these beautiful young women. But we're on shaky moral gound here. I know at least one girl who has been pressured by her mainland husband to sell herself here in HK to make money for the family (hopefully not for his gambling debts, etc.). So what does that make me? Am I not taking advantage of her unhappy situation? To turn around a sneer at her for being a prostitute would be contemptible. For my own peace of mind, I perfer to think that these are just rational girls who have made an economic decision about the quickest way to wealth, beyond that, I really don't want to go because I'm a moral coward.
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