Ya know, last week I saw five WGs.  This week five aswell (though it is only Thursday nite).  Though I did not hit the bar-scene at all.  All the girls are regulars and from my rolodex of numbers.  All hot, young, delicious babes.  The sms'ing all week keeping the "team" interested and active can be tiresome.  The hours together with each gal is fun and nice and there's no question I frickn love sex with them.

But.., it is starting to lose its shine.  I'm maybe getting a bit bored with it all.

Today I woke early and didn't have to hit the office.  One gal always greets me (everyday)  with a "Good morning darling" sms so I decide to meet her early - at 9:30am.  She laughs at the idea of meeting so early, but agrees.  Another gal, my fixation-girl, Joann (if you've followed my exploits you'll know this is the ONE gal, out of many hundreds, I went completely nuts over) also sms's and says she's free in the PM.  Hmmm, I ask her to join me to watch the "Hangover II".  She agrees.

I hit the town, and meet Emy at the Beverley at 9:30.  I bring some coffees and some muffins.  We chat, she tells me more about Bali and her home, I try to explain my country again.  We screw and screw.  (Mmmm, she IS hot, no question about that!!  And I loved the way she asked me to "kiss me on my little pussy" Mmmm).  It is a nice, slow, and easy morning.  I shower and leave.  Eat some food and soon noon approaches - time to go to Times Square.

I arrive and go the second-floor coffee shop - a great people-watching spot as you can see down to the escalators on the ground floor and watch all the people coming in.  Joann is to meet me here.  I see her coming long before she sees me.  My god she is beautiful:  she's wearing a long summer dress, soft colors and fabric, her long hair and fair skin a wonderful contrast.  I watch guy after guy (and girls too)  do a double-take as she walks along.  After 3 years Joann still gets my heart beating faster each time I see her.   

She sees me and smiles.  Mmmmm, I am a lucky man to be on the receiving-end of that smile!  We kiss and chat a bit, then head off to the cinema.  (Sidebar:  HangoverII doesn't have the magic that Hangover did, but still a fun time.  And Stu's Thai fiancée is fucking gorgeous!!  I want!).

The movie ends.  Joann asks me if I have to go home, or if I have time to go to a hotel (remember, I don't pay Joann anymore, so this is free sex).  Here's the funny bit - I DID have time, but told her "no babe, I gotta go".  We kiss and I leave.

I just felt like going home.  

On the way, two more sms's arrive from WG-regulars who want to hook up.  Not interested.

Oh ohhh.., am I fading?  My punting career over?  I have had one hell of a lot of adventures (some scary) the past few years.., maybe it's all finally been enough?

Maybe it's routine and not exciting anymore?

Maybe you need to go find a new scene and experience the thrill of the chase?  And possibly you haven't because now you are a fat lion(figuratively speaking) king of the jungle getting his meals brought to him instead of out in the sahara chasing down your prey?  Why would you bother with the chase when the best catches in the jungle arrive at your whim without any effort?  Time to prowl some new territory?

And BTW that Thai girl is so insanely gorgeous, wow!  Forget about being one of the most beautiful thai girls I've ever seen, she might be one of the most beautiful women I've seen!

And I laughed harder in one scene than anyone else cuz of a specific thread in this forum.  I was thinking about that thread the whole time during that scene.  If one of those guys could have checked out this forum beforehand it could have avoided that situation.

Hmm I tried searching "Joann" with your name ("wander") but it didn't turn up any search results.  Am I missing something here?  Would love to at least know what this girl, who you rate so highly, looks like!

maybe you need to try something new besides the same preference.
try something out of the ordinary... like a ladyboy in hangover 2.
i know some people may think it is gross but after watching the movie,
makes me want to try some. they are pretty cute if you ask me

when I feel like this, which I do from time to time, I take a couple of weeks off.  Which extends to more than punting.  It should be fun and exciting, just going through the motions ain't living enough.

Yeah, you Bros are right.  My punting style has always been the bargirls precisely because I enjoy the whole process - the party, the hunt, the fighting off the ones I dont want,  the occassional roofie (haha) and other strange, strange outcomes...  Just getting laid by a hottie isn't enough.   Once they've switched into my "pretend-girlfriend-GFE-mode" the thrill fades, I suppose.  And this is all I have been seeing lately.

Time for a change of scenery.

Could be a lot of things bro - you'll know better than us, ie. work, family, frds issues etc etc

But punting isnt something you have to keep up regularly every single week/month. Dont feel you are obligated to do so, you can dip in and out of it when you feel like it. Sounds obvious, but true.

sex is definitely about the chase. if its just fed to you after a while it gets less exciting. of course at first it's amazing but anything, if it becomes repetitive and predictable, can become a bore. and 5 days a week is almost every day. maybe you haven't finished your career but just need some time off. a vacation persay. i think what will definitely help is variety. change your approach, tactics etc. Maybe even look to pick up regular locals. it's a lot harder and this way you don't always get what you want ;) makes it less mechanical.

Good job man. I'm curious, do you have to pay for these ones too then?
What's your secret? Make them fall in love with you?

Hey Kibou Bro,

Yeah, I usually pay.  But my tendency to repeat over a long period of time with the same chicks means the "love" word also comes up often.  I am a sweet  lottery ticket to a lot of WGs here.  Rich, nice, fit, not too old (yet).  I have had those who refuse to take my cash, stating:  "I am not with you for your money!!!".  Feels nice, but of course they are - just in a different way.

A secret?  Well, be a rich fit gweilo.  (And being fit probably doesn't matter much).

After reading your very long post about Joann, all I can say is.. I think the moment she finally became more honest with you is finally the moment you two can start seeing each other as just FBs and nothing more.  Something 'clicked' in her brain knowing she could never ever truly have you, ever.  Proud of you saying "no" in your first post... it can only be good for you to be out of her snare / grip.  Think of your family and kids - you're doing the split (from Joann) for their well-being too, right?

I've met a few of these types of women before (civvies) but avoid them like the plague.  Anyway, happy hunting in the future!  You've got so many others anyway, lucky you!

Hi bro i read your post and can feel with you.
I am thinking about two aspects.

First: Punting-Time-Management
stress kills libido.
Wow 5 girls call and sms you, when ever they want.
Come here fuck me: 9am, 12am, 6pm, 9pm, etc.
Over a long time period, that is stress.
I think it is better you control the time when you like to meet them,
do not give your girls the control over your fucking time.

Second: Regular Girls.
Bro i am into it too, but I have only (now) 3 gigs or however you like to call them.
My favourite I like to meet for a 3-5 days Block-session per month. Only for a long time fucking session.
But belief me, after this session I am full.
In the beginning she called me too much in crazy times (3 am: Honey where are you, 6 am: Honey I like to see you).
Stressed me a lot. Now our agreement (Meeting one time in a month for 3-5 days) run smooth.
With the other 2 girls I made it clear:
If I like to see you I will call you. You have time for me it is ok, if not, it is also ok.
But please you never call me, because I am busy. When I have time for you, I willl call you shure!  
Give me the stress free - freedom for fucking some others (just passing your way).

Hope you can understand my bad tinglish.

Yeah you are absolutely right how they are still in it for the dough, just in a different way. WGs are still humans too and of course they'll want to live well off enough that they won't have to be a WG anymore. In that sense, I'm sure any WG who encounters someone who they deem suitable for a long term partnership, they would definitely try to ride that cowboy

Sometimes I think WGs are viewed in a bad light by the general public. But life is difficult in many parts of the world, and in the end they're still humans just trying to survive. So some WGs may actually be a real catch, but I don't know if any man can actually like a WG enough to take her out of her misery (maybe not misery for some WGs?) and support her for life.

Kibou, I've seen it all, I've heard it all.  

Their lives are tough, no question about it.  I've met so many sweet, sweet girls I am surely beyond my quota for what any man is supposed to meet in a lifetime.  I have helped more than a few in various ways.  Yet they keep coming - these damsels in distress.   

It is a few days/nites in a row now where I have just given up.  I don't want to see another girl, hear another story.  Enough!!!!!

I want to see my strong girls:   Joann, and Lenny, and Rose and......., not many more...  

I can't save everyone.  

Again, this is the problem with my style of punting!  Awesome GFE?  Yes, and yes, and YES!!  Holy shit it is hot!!   But draining too!!  

I am done for a while.  Need a rest.


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EDIT after seeing Paladin's comment - you are right, C is absolutely in my list of keepers.  She's coming back to HK in August BTW.  Now that I think of it, so is Angelia (can't lose her!!) And Helen (shit, almost forget Helen!!), and Anna (ahh, my sweet Portuguese/chinese mix!!  Everybody needs at least one of those!!). And..., oh oh.  Back in punting mood now!  Haha

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make a trip to USA....try chicago or salt lake city..check out the WG action.  I am sure that will rekindle your punting prowless

I think RICO and JtB are pretty entertaining, buy you're up there as well. If you were in the USA, you'd own a casino and a basketball team as well .

Given your sex drive, you'll be back in action by Monday, especially if the wife has stopped serving it up to you.

You remind me of a sometimes business partner of mine, fucks 4-5 different Playboy quality chicks a week (mostly Asian, too), then complains how bored he is.

or, just trying to be veggie for a couple weeks, go to somewhere that can see but can't eat.
I will felt everything is "reset" and need something to eat after that.

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Very interesting topic mate, thx for sharing.
I am in a position where I am fortunate enough to be considered as a potential FB with two girls who are normal citizen women, not WGs. I pretty much just need to find a suitable excuse to be away for afew hours from home and then arrange a place to get jiggy with it.
I haven't taken the bait yet because their motivation is slightly different: it's not money they're after, it's the BFE and "love", and to a point I like the GFE when cuddling and DFK them. And there's the possibility it could all end in tears if my wife ever found out.
Anyway back to the point: It was all very fun leading upto this point, the chase, the anticipation, the flirting and teasing. But despite not pulling the trigger with them, it can get exhausting texting and WhatsApp-ing them secretly o keep them strung along. When you want a quick flirtatious exchange, It's great. But when they have a nervous breakdown for any reason and text you to say "can u see you? I need a shoulder to cry on, etc" it can get bothersome. And also, if it gets too easy to say "I want you. Now." and they drop everything for you, you can lose interest and think "ahh, too easy!"
Take a "break" from it all. Go somewhere like Korea where you can legitimately say there's no GSM reception, and either rest your senses, or start conquering the Koreanbabes there on their territory. You need a change of scene as it's all too comfortable and maybe easy for you too.

Exactly...  I think I burned myself out.

Getting into a great GFE/BFE relationship with a super-hottie requires effort (sms's/calls/visits).  Maintaining 1 illicit affair like this (while having an SO) requires some juggling.  I just counted - I have 35 girls in my secret address book, of which about 15 are currently in HK and play this "How are you", "goodnite sweetheart", "when can we meet?"  GFE game.  The others are back in their home countries and email occasionally with updates on when they'll return.  I keep "watering" them aswell to keep the relationship alive until the next visit.

It's all become an energy-sucking blur.....

Anyway, I realize this is a ridiculous thing to whine about.  I'm a lucky son-of-a-bitch to be sure.

Basically you are bored. You have mastered the game of converting paid-wgs into I-want-to-marry-wander-give-free-sex-wgs at such an high level, that it is no more fun anymore. The whole process has gotten too easy for you. It wouldn't matter if you went to another place or country as you really honed your instincts on which girls can be converted or not.


It is time for you to step back from the day-to-day aspect of the game and become a Godfather (consultant) who has his own seat at one of the Wanchai bars. As godfather, you will revel in your new role, as you teach others how to carry out the same process as Joann, Lenny, and Rose sit by your side. Occasionally to keep your instincts sharp, you will have to demonstrate your skills on a newly arrived wgs for your proteges.  

Or you can just take a long break and write a book.