I was just reading the "overnight: how many times?" thread (by the way, mods don't want us
dredging up these five-year old threads), and am continually amazed by the potency of bro's.

The most I've ever climaxed in any given night is 2x.  I am a little ashamed to admit this, but there it is.

The most I've ever masturbated to climax on any day is about 2x.

Jerking off before getting with a WG to "avoid blowing one's load too quickly" is just absolute
insanity to me.  But you guys repeatedly recommend it.  Seriously, that's like eating a bunch of mcdonald's
right before a $1000USD dinner at el bulli.  WHY?  Perhaps it's because fucking a hot young WG
is like going to mcdonalds in asia (I'm in the US).

When I do come though, I come pretty hard and voluminously.  After the initial blow, I get the throbbing
pain in my cock for at least an hour.  Getting erect again intensifies that pain.  But aside from the physical
difficulty, I don't much feel like being with the chick anymore.  That's a very common behavior
in the animal world too.  The lion nuts, and kicks the lioness to the curb.

BUT, and you'll find this funny I'm sure, I feel like I'm not getting my money's worth if I'm not
orgasming 3-4 times like some of you guys.  Yes, feel free to ridicule me, but if you have
any tips on how to "space out" my ejaculate, mention them please.  Thanks

The most I've been able to do is two FS blows in one night (with same gf, so it's zero cost for me haha).
If I'm masterbating because I'm feeling super randy but just cannot get out to enjoy some 141 time, I can do for a third release, but there's hardly any juice by then. I fact, if there's more foreplay and build up, the first shot is more like a nuke then than spitting it out.
I don't have the luxury of being able to try a WG overnight. I wish I could, or even play with two girls and come twice, but I think it's probably better to have a single, awesome experience than come four times in as many hours.
Then again, that thought might be just to hedge my feelings against inadequacy! Hahaha!!! :p
Good luck!

I really can't relate, but I would certainly go to a doctor and talk about this.

Perhaps Kegel routines could be useful.  Are you generally a healthy person or are you a bald fat bastard foreigner like me?  BFBF (trademark pending)

Hmmm, I would imagine 2x per nite as a "max" is probablly average, Bro - so I wouldn't be concerned about that.  The pain in your dick, on the other hand, is another story.  Never really heard of that.

When particularly horny I can go 5 times a nite - then again upon waking.  In ALL the cases I've done that many (not really a lot) it was the girl that encouraged me - just wanted it over and over and over and got me hard over and over and over!

But other times I can screw forever and not cum once.  (Too tired, or drunk, whatever).  Who knows....

Everyone's different bro - you need to know your own body, and play to its strengths.  

For me, if I see a WG after a few days' abstinence, it'll be over in a relatively short time and I'll be hungry for more ... I'm not rich enough to pay that game ... so knocking one out before means I have a longer session (anything up to 1 hr), have more fun, and get a strong release at the end.  

At up to 5 pops in 24hrs, I seem to be pretty average on this board ... there are some highly strung horndogs here ... so best if you stop comparing yourself, and have fun in the way that works best for you!!

Pain sounds a bit weird, I'd get that checked.
I'm with Wander two a night is ok, then a third round in the morrning, always a nice way to start the day. To be honest, I cant be bothered to go a third round in a night, rahter go to sleep & save it for the am.

Couple of ways I have found to help getting ready for the next round:
1. Relax, you need to chill for a while after the first pop. I find that a nice 30 min massage usually brings me around for the second pop.
2. A dose of Viagra or Ciallis will get things pointing in the right direction for you soon after the first pop, I find I get very good wood with this solution as well. Note that you should get checked by a Dr before you give this option a try, especially if you are having pain in this area.

I can't pop then see a WG a minute later, that's not too easy for me.  Although I have popped during a massage and afterwards later been teased and aroused enough to get hard again but it took some effort my LB didn't react right away.

I'm not going to compare myself to my younger days when I could pop and be readynot longer afterwards.  I also can't compare to the Porn stars on this site, don't be embarrassed.

I will say if I pop at night guaranteed I have a raging hard on the next morning.

I feel your pain bro, i wish i could cum more also. Most is 2x in 1 night but with my g/f it's maybe just over 1.5/day on average.

I would get the pain issue checked out.  its not normal imo

As for multi pop issue...its a good question but hard to compare...if you should be comparing at all.  Issues like your physical health/fitness, practice & mental strength all comes into play.  As suggested, itsn't it far more fun to have great sex than have a marathon of sex?

As I mentioned somewhere before.  I would be a solid contestant in the "horniest man ever" contest.  

But don't get me wrong - could I do 5x nite after nite?  Uh no...., I got my limits.

One WG that I reported about here, Lenny, got me too pop 4 times in a 4 hour session.  Now that was impressive!

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as other bros have noted above, EVERYone is different. there is NO "normal." whatever works for you, works. what's made things worse is the constant presence of porn, which creates absurd notions of how "things should be." porn's fine if it turns ppl on, but apparently women look at videotaped pussies, then go for "labiaplasty": a fancy term meaning you pay a cosmetic surgeon a large sum of money to take a scalpel to your amazing vagina, because it doesn't look like Jenna Jameson's or whatever. i don't understand this, and i don't WANT to understand it. not to imagine the irrational size of the penii in the pornodrome nowadays.

i'm fat, i have scars and tattoos, i am wonderfully imperfect and enjoy my sexual encounters thoroughly. MCOT is not everyone else's COT, and vice versa, and that's excellent.

what concerns me is voiced by halfclover: if ejaculation is painful, seriously, go see your doc and TELL HIM. it may not be easy, but do it. trust me on this...my sister is a urological surgeon, she would tell you the exact same thing. it could be something simple, but in any case, seek competent medical advice.

if you're uncircumcised, there is a condition called phimosis that's quite rare, but does occur (i'm uncircumsized, which i got a lot of grief for during schooldays-locker-room idiocy, but am now very thankful for, so learned about this condition). circumsion is become less popular except for religious reasons...but that has nothing to do with you having pain after an orgasm. seriously, have it checked out. having a healthy sexual system is important, depending on where u live, there are FREE clinics that will advise u, as many of us are shy about discussing sexual matters with a doc. seriously though, they've heard/seen it ALL before. you are not a unique case. but please bro, do yourself a favor and get some professional advice. you've already done the hard part: admitting to us (and we DO care) that something may be amiss. many US cities have hotlines/clinics, or if u have a good GP, just go see him/her.

wishing u the best,

JtB

If I haven't had sex in awhile or if I get too excited,  I can blow my load in a few minutes.

Use a condom with benzine to desensitize your LB. I usually use Durex Performance Max, other brands will also carry them, but have different names for them. Or you can buy the gel and squeeze a little into your condom or rub some on your LB before you do your deed.

I use the Performance Max condom and I carry them with me when I go mongering. Its convenient and WGs don't mind that I use mine own. Sometimes when they do BJ, they rather use their own and it's fine with me, they say that they rather use their own for BJ cause of the taste.

Put the condom before LM, rub the condom all around so you can get the benzine on your LB, then let the WG do their job.

Tip: If you can't cum when using these condoms, just change it to a regular condom during LM or dry off the condom when it's too wet.

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age is a big factor.
In my 20's i can cum at least 3x the same night.
nowadays, i don't even bother doing more than 1.

Thanks to all bro's for concerns about my health, but I'm fairly sure some soreness is normal after
ejaculation, particularly after the 2nd or 3rd time.  It's not a burning pain... it's just a throbbing ache when LB is called to action too soon after the initial blow.

From the way you guys talk, I feel like I am in the presence of sexual supermen.

General consensus to enjoy the few or single pop instead of sweating multiple pops is appreciated.
I bet if I focused on "pulling my punch" on the first load, I'd have enough for 3 shots, but I can't imagine
going past 3 in one night.
But my whole sexual life, I've been "leaving everything on the field" on the first climax, and the feeling is, well, "orgasmic."

I'd say you have nothing to be worried about priapus; definitely understand the throbbing that you mean. Usually happens to me if I try to do more than 2 pops within a very short time frame. With one of my recent ex's, we actually went 5 times in 8 hours. Spent the entire day in bed screwing. She actually wanted more pops, but I felt like I needed to put my LB in a splint or something, thought it would fall off at any moment...

Have to say though, do whatever you enjoy, whether it be one super-orgasmic pop, or multiple. The whole point of the hobby is to let yourself feel good, and I don't get why you would want to de-sensitize the feeling just so you can go out it again.

Long as you cum out smiling, you're a winner! Heh heh.

In my youth 20-28 years of age I use to lock myself in my bedroom with my GF's and just bang all day. My record for a one day fuckathon is like 11 times. Towards the end there would be nothing left to come out when I came.

I exercise regularly and do enjoy a lot of physical activity but as I have grown older 28+ I do not have the want to cum so many times. 2-3 times in a day is more than enough for me and those days are usually quite rare.  I do however have sex on a regular basis almost at least once a day. So maybe that is why. On occasion usually once a week. I do have sex with different people all in the same day. I like to spread it out instead of cumming again after the first pop. For me it just feels more satisfying.

I've tried the De-sensitizing condoms before. I could not feel anything and it took me forever to cum. I felt like it was a waste of sex using it. After my first experience with it I never used it again.

I have also noticed that in the past when I would cum so many times there was a slight discomfort. Your kegel exercises work hard for you to ejaculate.  It could be that you are not used to cumming so many times and your kegel muscles are sore. I would trying doing kegel exercises and see if that helps.

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the most i have blown i think was about 6 times from 9pm to lunch time the next day but that was when i was at my prime i think. how i did it, i think do to environment and just depends on your body and health status. was all 6 times fully blown out, no that would be almost impossible sometimes you just feel that you finish but only a bit of cum comes out.

the are other factors like where both of u horny as hell, i was that night and so was she. now a days i think i can still get about 4 times before LB gets tired.

as for the question about jerking off before punting, i sometimes do that. Reason, you dont want to go into a session and cannot even last 2 mins before you blow your load right. so jerking helps reduce some chances that you blow your next load too quick.

the session i had yesterday, i already had 2x wiith in the 2 session i had with the same WG. so it is still possible for me to unload more then 2x a night. im an avg guy, i eat the normal stuff aka fastfood or just restaurants and home cooking no diet there, i drink a lot of water not sure if that helps me to shoot more out.

I know that feeling.  srsly sucks eggs imho


I forgot to mention that some people here uses the pill which gives them performance enhancement.  That could be a factor as well.

Viagra and other pills requires a certain amount of time to metabolise and reach the bloodstream. If you read the Viagra guidelines, it will usually take about 30mins for it to take effect, however, if you have just had dinner and you pop the pill it will take much longer to reach the bloodsteam. The oils in your food will slow down the uptake of the med. When you take Viagra, when the med is effective, you will be able to feel a warmness in your chest. This is a rough indication that the Viagra has reached your bloodstream. This is the time you will want to take action since it only last 4 hours.

As for Praipus problem on the painful penis, check the condom you are using. Are they a correct fit? If the condom is too loose, basically your penis head is sliding in the condom. So your penis head is banging the end of the condom. Condoms comes in different diameter, so just select the correct condom. There condoms with 48mm to 60mm diameter. Give it a try, the solution can be as simple as that. So if pain is elimanated maybe you can cum more times. Oh another point, to maximise sperm production wear boxer shorts instead of tight fitting underwear. The warmer your balls is the less is produced.

JtB's post pretty much summarises what I think as well.  Also, like you said before it's not about the number of times but also the quantity each time - even if you're like speedracer the MC (mega-cummer) then so..?  Quality over Quantity IMO... (unless you're 15-25 y.o.)

Apart from rest in between shots I also find that drinking (not hot) water soon after you've popped helps.  No idea why, but for me I guess I lose quite a lot of fluid each time (not just through LB of course!).  Other drinks don't help as much, be they sugary (eg sports drinks or fruit drinks) or salty (soup, etc.) and even caffeine (eg tea or coffee), as they somehow dehydrate me more and making performance worse.

In case you're curious about number of times, yea 5x/24 hrs is my record but honestly 2-3x on some nights is enough, averaging out to just under once a night overall (if every day is counted). (FYI I'm nearing 30 y.o.)

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