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Post at 2-11-2010 21:57  Profile P.M. 
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Should I go???

So I just recently started hitting up this WG on the regular. On her last trip I visited quite often and as a WG her service was great. We exchanged contact info and have been talking quite often. She wants me to come up to China to meet her and stay at HER place. She is even said she doesnt want any money just want to be with me. My question for you bros is, do you tihnk I should go for it? I am scared she is tricking me up there to kidnap me or smth! what do you bros think? any input appreciated!
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Post at 2-11-2010 22:06  Profile P.M. 
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If you aint got nothing else to do, Just go, but stay at your own hotel.  She probably isnt trying to kidnap you, hell, she's probably hoping you would kidnap her so someone could take her out of China.
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Post at 2-11-2010 22:27  Profile P.M. 
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Reply #1 jyeung23's post

Hitting this WG on the regular? So where are your reports then??
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Post at 2-11-2010 22:43  Profile P.M. 
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It depends where you are coming from and where in China she wants you to go.  You realize you are paying for this anyway?  For sure get a hotel room even if you don't use it.  You have no idea what her place is like.

If you have been seeing her quite often and haven't gotten any freebies yet, it sounds a little odd she wants you to go to China.
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Post at 2-11-2010 22:52  Profile P.M. 
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I don't think she would want to kidnap you unless she is working with some syndicate harvesting for body parts. Kidnapping isn't easy. How much ransom did she think she could get out of you? I wouldn't turn down an invitation so check yourself into a hotel and ask her to spend a couple of nights with you and when venturing outside, just go to nearby restaurants. I would pay the girl anyway as all WGs in China need the money unless her friends get to your kidneys, liver and heart first.

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Post at 2-11-2010 23:13  Profile P.M. 
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Reply #1 jyeung23's post

hell yeah you should go. you're a grown ass man (I certainly hope so). wtf are you afraid of? although it'd probably be better if you stayed at a hotel or something. would also be wise to pay her however much she insists on not taking your money. unless you wanna be her "BF".
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Post at 2-11-2010 23:22  Profile P.M. 
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Reply #1 jyeung23's post

Everyone has given you great advice.
Go and have fun.

But give the girl some money afterward and you have less strings attached and you don't feel as attached.

In the long run it is better for you and the girl.
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Post at 2-11-2010 23:36  Profile P.M. 
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where in china is this?  If its not too insanely far or remote, I would consider it in your position
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Post at 2-11-2010 23:47  Profile P.M. 
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thanks for the great tips bros... the "place" in china is just shenzhen! LOL...shouldnt be too dangerous right? I am asian so I geuss i can blend in easily...

Also many bros have advised me to get my own place. Is this purely because of a living standard and hygiene issue? Incase her place is a dump? Or is there a chance some crazy bf might come and kill me

cheers for the advice everyone. A report will def be coming but I just moved back to HK and been enjoying this place wayyyy too much!!!
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Reply #9 jyeung23's post

I think the advise of getting your own hotel is for hygiene/living standards as well as safety.  I imagine if your staying in some random girls apartment, it would be alot easier to get kidnapped then staying at a decent hotel with security.  Let us know how it goes.
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I am no expert in china, but I rarely hear of people getting kidnapped in china.  I am sure some members here can verify this. If any, maybe robbery or some kinda scheme is far more common.  So if you have a hotel, you can leave some things in your hotel safe.  Man, Shenzhen is like in your backyard!!
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Reply #9 jyeung23's post

well it would just be safer to get your own hotel room. you never know what kind of a place she has in SZ. I've seen apartment buildings there that are shady and/or downright filthy. SZ is a safe enough place if you're street smart. just don't be a fool and you'll be fine.
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Post at 3-11-2010 01:54  Profile P.M. 
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Reply #1 jyeung23's post

Why not?  

Actually that's the question: what precautions would you take the first time you visit her place?  

... leave valuables behind
... set a "call-in time" with a friend, to raise the alarm
... carry an epirb
... or ..?

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Post at 3-11-2010 04:25  Profile P.M. 
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Personally, id be careful about taking this further. Ive read of posts here where they say money isnt an issue and it becomes so.
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Post at 3-11-2010 07:36  Profile P.M. 
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Reply #13 DArtagnan's post

It's not a bad idea but why not just pay a few hundred dollars for a room?
You can make as much of a mess as you want.

And you don't to worry........

Oh wait.... I just remembered one thing about the GZ games....

Bringing a girl isn't that easy these few months....

At least that's what I heard.

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QUOTE:
Originally posted by Avatar at 3-11-2010 07:36
Oh wait.... I just remembered one thing about the GZ games....

Bringing a girl isn't that easy these few months...

It is OK as long as you check in together with the girl and she has a valid ID card. During the games, you cannot visit a hotel guest in his room if you cannot produce an ID card.
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Post at 3-11-2010 08:35  Profile P.M. 
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easier solution if you are single..invite her to Hong Kong to spend a few days here.

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Reply #1 jyeung23's post

if you read the HK Reports and China Reports sections, you will see that some of our bros regularly cross the border to be withtheir beloved WGs. it is normal for the WGs to invite you to see them in China, as it is relatively difficult (and sometimes costly) for them to obtain travel documents to HK, especially if they have overstayed before
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QUOTE:
Originally posted by Avatar at 3-11-2010 07:36
It's not a bad idea but why not just pay a few hundred dollars for a room?
...

here's a few

for the thrill of being off the beaten track
for the intimacy of entering her private space
for doing something you don't already do twice a week in HK
for curiosity and adventure
for the implied message to her "you're special" and seeing how she responds differently to you
for getting to know a bit about the real Chinese culture
for uninhibited hot hot sex

... and probably several others




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Originally posted by afcom at 3-11-2010 04:25
Ive read of posts here where they say money isnt an issue and it becomes so.

anyone who's ever spent time with girls has been asked for money by some of them.  Just something to handle when it happens.  

Bigger risk is kidnap etc. ... but if you're not doing something illegal you're not a target ... too much fallout from trying to kidnap a foreigner, compared to hustling their own countrymen.




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