Subject: cheating?
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Post at 26-12-2009 21:34  Profile P.M. 
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cheating?

Is it cheating to be with a girl in HK if you have a great GF back home? It just feels really exciting, but then again...
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Post at 26-12-2009 21:47  Profile P.M. 
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Reply #1 dreamerG's post

well I would guess your great GF back home would say it was cheating. You will get plenty of different opinions but you are an adult so it's your call how you play.  
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Post at 26-12-2009 22:11  Profile P.M. 
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It's cheating if you lie about it (even if only by omission). We all lie and cheat sometimes, and it can be a thrill. You may be making a mistake if visiting a prostitute will affect your "real life," so think carefully before you do anything.
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Post at 26-12-2009 22:15  Profile P.M. 
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it depends on your definition of treating
you are only not loyal to her on the body aspect
but u are still faithful to her at your heart
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Post at 26-12-2009 22:40  Profile P.M. 
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dude if you are asking this question, this forum is not for you...

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Post at 26-12-2009 22:57  Profile P.M. 
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QUOTE:
Originally posted by dreamerG at 26-12-2009 21:34
Is it cheating to be with a girl in HK if you have a great GF back home? It just feels really exciting, but then again...

  you mean cheating in your mind or cheating in your GF's mind ?
and do you also mean you intend to tell her ?

will your excitement overcome your guilt should be the right question !  
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Post at 26-12-2009 23:10  Profile P.M. 
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I guess there are different aspects of cheating.

If I sleep with a girl, but don't give her my heart, is that cheating?

I hope not

I sleep with WGs,
flirt with colleagues,
date a couple of potentials,
and love my ex

But I only do all four with my GF.

I think I'm really stretching this definition of "being faithful"
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Post at 27-12-2009 00:55  Profile P.M. 
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Reply #1 dreamerG's post

Did you promise her to be monogamous?

If not, it's not cheating anywhere, not just in HK.  

If you did, yes.  It's not cheating because you're having sex, but because you made a promise ... presumably to get her to have sex with you at a time she would otherwise have been unwilling.  

OK we're splitting hairs.  

Why did you want to know anyway?  You're going to do it or you're not going to do it - the question what to call it is merely academic, the bigger question is whether you can handle your commitments?




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Post at 27-12-2009 00:58  Profile P.M. 
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Reply #1 dreamerG's post

I don't think the fact that you're in a different country changes anything. If what you do it's cheating back home, it's cheating in HK.
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Post at 27-12-2009 01:16  Profile P.M. 
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Reply #1 dreamerG's post

I'm assuming you're not asking about location (HK) or about what you think of your GF (great), and that your question is simply "if using a WG girl constitutes cheating"? If so, my answer is, do you feel you're being unfaithful? If so, then you are cheating.




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Post at 27-12-2009 01:45  Profile P.M. 
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DreamerG, by asking the question, you already have answered it.  You have enough doubts in your mind so you ask the rhetorical question and hoping this forum somehow clears up what lurks in the back of your mind, if I read you right.  I think you know how YOU would answer the question.
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Post at 27-12-2009 02:42  Profile P.M. 
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I'm just going to be honest with you and answer you directly.

YES it is cheating.
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Post at 27-12-2009 04:50  Profile P.M. 
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i did not promise anything and i will not tell anything. I just ask you guys is it cheating?= I guess in a way it is and I guess it is immoral with or without GF. Still I cant really make up my mind if I should do it or not. (and yea i did it once before already and i did not feel bad a couple of days afterwards)
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Post at 27-12-2009 06:13  Profile P.M. 
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I can honestly say that I've never slept with another woman before.

I was awake every single session.

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Post at 27-12-2009 06:25  Profile P.M. 
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Reply #1 dreamerG's post

I am wondering bro....Why are you asking this question...Do you feel guilty and want to confess to your girl...
But then you said " THEN AGAIN"...So i am assuming that you do not want to tell your girl..( DAMN right you do not tell her..) But then again it is human nature for a man to stray now and again...But it is best if you do not let it affect your personal life...Because seeing a wg is a spur of the moment thing........( Cardinal cravings..)

[ Last edited by  Rico at 27-12-2009 06:27 ]
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Post at 27-12-2009 06:26  Profile P.M. 
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Do you think it would be cheating if she had a few flings with unemotional attachments while she was traveling? Answer that and it may help you decide.

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Post at 27-12-2009 06:28  Profile P.M. 
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Reply #16 waldo's post

You are diving a bit too deep there bro....
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Post at 27-12-2009 06:38  Profile P.M. 
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QUOTE:
Originally posted by Rico at 27-12-2009 06:28
You are diving a bit too deep there bro....

Really? What do you mean by "diving a bit too deep"?
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Post at 27-12-2009 06:41  Profile P.M. 
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do you guys have GF or not? are you all single? I think thats a better question?
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Reply #18 waldo's post

Alright bro Waldo...The question brought up by bro dreamerg..Was about if he thought that seeing a wg....Would HE be classified as cheating...Nothing about the latter...( We do not want to venture into that territory bro..)..
We bros like yourself..( A bro..) Talk about our thoughts...YES..You are right ..Our other halves do have feelings...But this forum is for the bros to discuss our own thoughts..( WITH the BROS..)..And not be put through a guilt trip...
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