I've had the BB experience with a number of K-gals over the years, and it was on offer for a number of reasons:

1) My VIP status with the ownership (it certainly wasn't with the management, they acted like douchebags to me )
2) My loyalty to the house (they were all 8s and 9s and knew every trick in the book)
3) Some of them actually genuinely liked me.

Let me offer this to you: I am very much aware we should be cognizant of health issues, but this particular establishment boinked a lot of guys BB over the year, and no one hardly ever caught anything. Also, the Koreans are pros. The BB thing at all times was a business decision. It was calculated to get you to cum quicker, so they can get you out the door and move on to the next chaji.

Just remember why it's being offered...if she is angling to be a real life g/f, that one is dicey. If she thinks you are loaded, that's dangerous. (18 years! 18 years! and on the 18th birthday he discovered it wasn't his !)If it's just because she likes fucking you and is mature enough to understand this is a business and not romance, then go with it if you trust her.

The test is simple: have the lines been blurred, or are they still sharp and bright?

[ Last edited by  paladin310 at 5-6-2011 01:25 ]

i must say paladin..u are living in a very..very dangerous road. You knew about BB being offered to other punters and still divulge in the forbidden pleasure...i sure sure hope you don't regret it in your later life.

And on top of that, you are giving out advices to OP to refrain from doing so? sounds like a contradiction to me?

If BBFS is a forbidden pleasure, it must have made Inglewood CA (where the Lakers used to play), circa 1995, the Forbidden City.

There's no contradiction, the girls who offered me BBFS was as a perk. This was in the late 80s and early 90s, when sex was a lot safer than it is today. Ir sounded like the girl in OP's thread was shooting an angle. Two completely different scenarios.

Twenty years ago, you got the clap, you got a shot of penacillin. We've since moved over from Cipro to Rocephin, which is a testament on how hardy the gonococcus bug has become.

In my situation, disease was a longshot, pregnancy was impossible and their offer had nothing to do with romance, as the girls involved were career professionals. In the OP's situation, well, that one he might have to sort out. She obviously likes him, but if she is playing him, only he can figure that one out for himself.

I have less of a problem with it than other bros here, because I'm very much aware of the realities of this hobby, and how it intertwines with m/f relations. I have no S/O to go home to, so, what's the big deal?

But...I'm not reckless about it. Doing BBFS in, say, a 3W country where delivery of medical services is poor as well as sex education, that would be stupid. It would be crazy to do BBFS in say, TH or PI (for different reasons). My situation was with girls who have been doing this for years, will be doing it for another 15-20 years (maybe even longer with a crack plastic surgeon), in the US of A.

zhouyun probably has a point here, but as long as you aren't spreading any diseases to the WGs you're doing BB to, that's fine I guess.  Wouldn't take such a huge gamble on every WG myself though regardless of the country.

PS When you mean "sex was a lot safer" in the late 80s and early 90s, do you mean even in the US, or just Asia?  I thought AIDS/HIV was quite rampant even in the States, as well as some Asian countries like PI, TH and other STDs in VN.

hmm.. i though late 80's to 90's are when there's lots of news about HIV/AIDS spreading wild? and you mention
"I have less of a problem with it than other bros here, because I'm very much aware of the realities of this hobby, and how it intertwines with m/f relations. I have no S/O to go home to, so, what's the big deal?"

unfortunately if everyone is thinking like you.. it won't be long until someone got infected by accident, and that's exactly how the diseases spreads... in a way i understand you pov, as i don't have S/O aswell..so i'm able to punt without worrying i might pass on anything to anyone(or less likely) i care about...but that's not all there is to it...it involves the service providers aswell as other punters too...

anyway..i hope you don't see this as i'm trying to attack your values or anything... i'm just stating my own opinion on the matter. no hard feelings. cheers