Subject: Possible fuck buddy
suntory1975
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Post at 27-4-2011 08:50  Profile P.M. 
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Possible fuck buddy

Dear all I am happily married for years and have kids but at work is a hot woman
Who is kinda into me and she has a boyfriend as well we talk about naughty stuff and she even
Kinda suggested we should get intimate and be a possible FB my little bro says yes but my mind why risk it all
And have this cheap thrill what you guys think, I am basically offer to be a FB with no strings but who says woman always follow rules? Any experiences?!?
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Post at 27-4-2011 10:10  Profile P.M. 
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There are a lot of factors to consider in my opinion.  Does she work in the same department?  Is she in a position to screw you (in the bad way) over if the relationship ends badly?  Could the wife find out through coworkers?  Etc...

My personal feeling is not to do it unless you are ok with leaving the job if it goes bad.

I mean really if you are looking for a FB, there are plenty to choose from on this website with less drama and more discretion.

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Post at 27-4-2011 10:22  Profile P.M. 
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Also, quite a key difference in that she's not married but you are... The equation is hugely imbalanced.




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QUOTE:
Originally posted by suntory1975 at 27-4-2011 08:50
Dear all I am happily married for years and have kids but at work is a hot woman

Have you seen the movie Fatal Attraction? As soon as sex gets involved there is a high probability that emotions go into over drive, and not just her... potentially you as well. Deny it all you like... how will you feel after banging her on Friday night and she says she's going away for the weekend with her boyfriend? you can say the thought of him banging her wont bother you but you haven't banged her yet... Heck, there are some Bros who get possessive of WGs so it's not a far stretch that once sex is involved things get much more serious.

I agree with CL about the imbalance, she could break up with her boyfriend on a whim and suddenly she's calling you at home.

Be careful Bro... We have WGs to solve the yearning in your underpants... no strings attached!
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Post at 27-4-2011 11:32  Profile P.M. 
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Reply #1 suntory1975's post

can she give you a promotion?
if yes, then go for it, make her a happy woman.

if you are the one who can give her a promotion..
be wary then.

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Post at 27-4-2011 12:33  Profile P.M. 
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Having affairs in office is definitely a no-no IMO.  Imagine if the relationship goes sour, how would that affect the professional relationship? Is she in a position to screw u up? Also, office rumors are the worst kind u can encounter especially if it goes up to your boss.

In this case, it's better to listen to the bigger brain
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Post at 27-4-2011 14:08  Profile P.M. 
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QUOTE:
Originally posted by CunningLinguist at 27-4-2011 10:22
Also, quite a key difference in that she's not married but you are... The equation is hugely imbalanced.

Which brings me to the dangerous question of "do married women make better Fbuddies?"
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Post at 27-4-2011 14:16  Profile P.M. 
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Damn the torpedoes

Damn the torpedoes, full steam ahead.  You may get three fuckings for the price of one.

1 ) Hot office mate
2)  Your boss
3)  Your wife

Please let us know how it works out.

"Inquiring minds want to know"

Che'lu
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Post at 27-4-2011 14:39  Profile P.M. 
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QUOTE:
Originally posted by princeandnpg at 27-4-2011 14:08


Which brings me to the dangerous question of "do married women make better Fbuddies?"

yes, because they wouldn't be embarassed to book and check into a hotel room first.
and sometimes they even pay for the room~!!!





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Post at 27-4-2011 17:19  Profile P.M. 
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Been in that position before. I wouldn't do it. Nothing good could come out of it in the end. Sooner or later, someone will startto gossip and it will spread like crazy. Eventually, someone you dont want to find out will find out. If you weren't going to stayat that company much longer and wanted to take her on as a FB, then i would say go for it. Otherwise, be careful. What's the expression? "you're playing with fire". At a very minimum make sure you know her well enough to know that she's not a drama queen.
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Post at 27-4-2011 17:36  Profile P.M. 
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This one is easy. Stick to the pros. That's what they're there for. Next!
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Post at 27-4-2011 18:26  Profile P.M. 
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Reply #1 suntory1975's post

Some considerations:-

how old is she?  Older = less risk, younger = more risk
what's her reputation?  are you going to sink yours by being seen together (you will be, so assume you will be)
what's her track-record?  butterfly? user? manipulator? or better hidden than a secret agent's real history?
do you have anything on her that can assure her silence?  

and everything the bros have said above

Generally speaking you're MUCH safer playing away from 'home'.  Pros, or if you have to have a girlfriend, find one away from work.  BUT there are reports of successful office affairs ... so it's ultimately up to you to assess the potential downside ... the blow-ups are big when they happen.




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I still stand by don't shit where you eat mantra.   Use your big head, not little head bro
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Too dangerous. Just have fun flirting and see a WG afterwards. No repercussions that way. I've been in this situation, but she was married.  Somewhat regret it now and am very lucky to get away without consequences. After awhile I realized she was crazy, and not in a good way.
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QUOTE:
Originally posted by princeandnpg at 27-4-2011 14:08

Which brings me to the dangerous question of "do married women make better Fbuddies?"

No, not other people's wives... The best FBs are other people's mistresses or their kept GFs.




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Post at 28-4-2011 04:45  Profile P.M. 
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Reply #15 CunningLinguist's post

is this a proven theory from experience?

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suntory1975
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Some
More info she "says" she always cheated on former bf's and had FB's before she admits she loves sex too much and can't separate love and lust ver clearly well I have mydoubts... She vang screw me up since I am a senior but people talk around alot in the office....
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Post at 28-4-2011 20:20  Profile P.M. 
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Just pound the shit out of her in the office bathroom.  JK

Be smart, keep your job, keep your life, find a FB outside of work.

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Post at 28-4-2011 22:21  Profile P.M. 
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I'll refer you to this thread where things just might end up:
http://forum.sex141.com/eforum/v ... &extra=page%3D9

Long story short, don't play this dangerous game, it'll only get worse.
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Post at 29-4-2011 08:53  Profile P.M. 
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Simple. It's not worth the risk unless you work at Victoria's secret and your fuck buddy are the models there.
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