Hi Bros,

I've got some special request today… But let me start with a little bit of background.

It has been 2 years now that I'm dating a woman that I met back when she was working in Kam Bong building in Sheung Wan. She stopped this work shortly after we met and I was quite happy and proud that she tried other, "traditional" jobs ; and we're living together for more than a year now.

This summer, she went to the US with a girlfriend for what should have been some leisure trip. They stayed there 2 months and I started to accumulate the doubts about whether she was "back to business" there… I now have a couple of evidences that she obviously did, and would require some help in order to clarify these. So here is a snapshot of her notebook that is very likely related to her activity in the US. My Mandarin skills are too weak to translate it, so if a bro would be kind enough to help me on that, I would be very grateful.

Don't get me wrong ; I don't mean to blame her or throw it on her face. I genuinely love her and my only goal is to understand what happened, and get it right again. But I need to be sure about my doubts before.

Hope you guys can understand and help.
Thanks in advance…

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Taxi  Brother "Wong"

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I'm guessing marcdestral has got to be relieved, that it was nothing after all.

I ran the note through a computer translation and got the following gibberish.

Zaobinchangwan Pingliaopuda
Denitrification - soil azelaic husband stingy US
The commanded Dianqianyoujie flowers
On puppet> Diao yo normalized. Bun storm
Bian Xi Yan stiff Diao, S Hu r ugly Qi factory Friends of

Whatever your computer is smoking, I want some too!!!

me too, I also want what he is taking

Thanks bro mansai for the translation.
I guess it just confirms my fears... advertisments, taxis,...
Do you guys know if what mansai translated as "big auntie" could mean "mamasan" in Mandarin?

Cheers

I don't know what you blocked out from the picture, but it could just be an address book.

Not to be a poo poo head, but...

1.) Spending two months in America for a leisure trip is a really long time. However, if she has friends there then I can see it. I know people who have gone on vacation to places only to enjoy it so much that they extended their stay for several months.

2.) You say that you're worried about your significant other returning to the business, but you yourself still see working girls as evidenced by your reports on Hong Kong and Shanghai from the past year (during the time you were with your SO). You can't have it both ways. You can't be angry at her for working (or seeing other guys) when you yourself are still seeing WGs.

It is obvious that the blocked out parts are phone numbers, there wouldn't be enough room for an address.  The translated parts are people or descriptions of people.  
So, this is a phone list.

You have taxi driver
...a dispatcher
...a webmaster
...2 Chinese newspapers to advertise in (Sing Tao Daily and World Journal)
...and one that you are waiting to get advertised in.

>I guess it just confirms my fears... advertisments, taxis,...

It looks to me like you are sure that your girlfriend is to no good, and you are desperate to find a proof.

I hate to give advice and usually don't, but I cannot help it here. You, obviously, are in a state where you don't trust your girlfriend, since you are looking for proof that she is cheating. I suggest that you let go and move on with your life. Your chances of finding happiness in this relationship are not very good. Not a good way to start a relationship.

Hi guys,

Thanks for your replies and support.

@Freelancer: You're absolutely right, I'm angry about her for working again and I happen to punt (although rarely) at the same time.. and you know what? last January I caught gonorrhea in a sauna in Shanghai and gave it to her, which she forgave because she knows the deal and is a smart woman. So I know that I should take this affair with this in mind but still, it's hard to swallow...

@lefeu: Thanks for speaking frankly. And honestly, I would give the same advise to someone in my shoes.

After all, I can't share this with friends or family so this forum is ultimately the best place for me to speak! What I didn't tell you guys is that she's not really my girlfriend... I married her one year ago So now I won't let go because marriage is important to me and I need to make the effort to get over this. She did this because we need money and as I'm just starting my business in HK, she didn't want to put extra pressure on me. So really I can't blame her because even though I hate what happened, she did what she felt right to do (with no education, it's the only way for a woman to quickly get money). Still, I'm having a very hard time forgetting that:
- A bunch of guys have fucked my wife ; it didn't bother me when I met her and we were just dating, but now that we're married it takes an other dimension for me,
- She has accumulated dozens of lies to do this ; actually I had doubts even before she left (I know her so well) and she promised me that she would not do this. And yet she did.. Now it's nearly impossible to trust her! Like today she's in GZ to meet a girlfriend, but how can I be sure?

Anyway, life goes on and I hope the feeling will disappear with time and alcohol!
Cheers

hang in there buddy, time will definitly erase all that's happened, take it easy on the alcohol. Good luck and God speed.

Here's another perspective and possibility.

If she takes out her money to help you out in your business, you know she's genuinely committed to you.