That settles it.

Us guys ARE dogs aren't we?!

SEAJ

To be honest, I would count it as the one shot. If you feel like you're about to cum, then you gotta stop her, or pull out yourself.

However, while I've said this, it all depends on the girl. You will find that anything is possible. Even with a HG I've managed to get two shots for the price of one all within 45 minutes. Granted this has only happened twice before, but its happened before and both times the girl initiated the second shot!

RE: Forum/community building

I started a website with my friend about 2 years ago based on a Japanese anime. We also have a forum and it's grown quite fast actually. The audience for my site are between the ages of 13 and 23, it's quite a bit different from this community.

What I've found that worked well for us is to have a few "champions" in the forum. Champions are like moderators except these folks are more proactive about reaching out and meeting new members, making them feel comfortable, and contributing to discussions. (Kind of like you SEAJ)

A community needs critical mass to get going, but so does each and every individual that joins the community. What I mean is that people won't just register and become active. Getting them interested and active is like building a fire. You need fire starters or champions who can fuel the fire. If a new member makes a first post and someone actually made a personable reply or sent a PM to him, it makes him feel good and more confident to post another time.

A lot of forums get big and they don't have enough champions to continue growing. What happens is that moderators become overwhelmed, a lot of rules and regulations are enforced, restrictions on viewing are put in to decrease spamming, and what happens is that a community is no longer a nurturing community. People are intimidated with all the rules and won't feel the connection.

I just woke up and typed this, hope that made sense.

I would just like to say thanks to SEJ for starting this thread making us newbies feel welcomed and a place to chillax.

As a newbie to a forum and also to this hobby, its quite intimidating especially when you have nothing to report, a site that makes us all feel part of a community really does help.

Hope I will be able to contribute to this site with reports when I visit HK in March, maybe even meet for a beer.

OH wow - TD's now REALLY gonna think you and I are the same! LOL!

And OH WOW - you've put into words and solid thoughts exactly what I was "suspecting and feeling" was what was happening here.

I had NO solid thought myself at all! - but now that I see your written words - it all makes sense!

I thoroughly enjoy myself on this forum - but now that you mention it - yes I DID have to reach out and DID struggle quite a bit to make myself part of this community.  

I hope - truly hope - that a lot of members here (ESPECIALLY SENIORS) will give what you've written careful thought and give their own input.  This is DYNAMITE perspective and I want to express my depest gratitude.

THANK YOU audible!!

SEAJ

I am truly humbled by your and audible's posts.  

Thank you.

SEAJ

All humans are driven by the desire to feel connected, and of course to spread our seeds.

You're a champion in this community and I appreciate you taking the lead on conversations and experiences, thanks again.

By the way, I had dreams last night about mongering. I think I'm starting to feel more "immersed" in the community. I'll be a on business trip next week, hitting up Chengdu, Guangzhou, Shanghai, and Xi'an. Hopefully I'll be able to find something interesting.

It's gonna be COLD up there!!

I'm right now only in CP - and it's plenty cold enough for me here already - to the point that it takes a bit of planning to make sure that I don't freeze my balls of (or hers off!) when I'm doing "It"

You oughta drop in for at least a day or 2 to Chang Ping whilst here - you know - all work and no play makes jack..... thing

SEAJ

EDIT - BTW - I've just been reminded that it's best that this thread does not become the ONLY place for important facts and information to be at - and that it probably is best that if great mongering information or matters come up, that we should just go ahead and put up a separate thread to accomodate easier fact searching by the discuz engine.
I would though, like to make an exception for the matter raised by audible #123 for this fact IS an integral part of this thread.  Thanks

[ Last edited by  SEAJ at 8-1-2011 11:34 ]

Encourage participation in the forum...

Sorry to say OUCH - but I personally HATE shaved pussies.

Too much like doing a hedgehog!

And all the cuts and nicks that invariably accompanies such plucked chickens - scares the Bejeezus out of me!

Playboy pixs from the late 60"s are WAY MORE EROTIC than those now found just about everywhere.

SEAJ

Haha I must say I prefer shaved. My SO hates the feeling of stubbles so she'll shave right before we do anything, I'm lucky.

Hahaha!  
GOTCHA!!

You're revealing how many times you do it with your SO!!

There's no way that any body would shave themselves down there daily!!

SEAJ

If any seniors here would be so kind as to....

HELP!!!

I'm running out of K's to award out today - for as you see, I've been doling them out here in the hope of getting participation/building up criticial mass.

Yeah - I know - a bit of a mischief on my part - but I'd like to think that the end will justify the means.

So if any seniors would also help out and do the honors until I can get "re-charged" I'd be immensely grateful!!

Thanks beforehand

SEAJ

I'm gonna put up MY contender - the all natural White Tiger!

Yeah yeah yeah - I posted it up before -
but since I'm not on my office computer where I store my pictures, well, got no choice!

SEAJ

Just for fun. A gif I created from an old video of a busty walkup. Download the link for URL.

[ Last edited by  feliphile at 8-1-2011 15:47 ]

My first post. Good to see there is such a thread where we could chat. Especially for a newbie and a non-HK resident, this would be helpful. My work will send me to HK by around Feb or March so I am looking what goods are thre in HK. And so far from what I saw, there are a lot to be excited for my trip.

I do not speak Cantonese or Chinese in general. Would the girls in 141 be able to cope? Meaning, would they be able to converse even with little English maybe?

Thanks in advance!

Very Nice site!

Welcome to our forum - hope that you will enjoy it as much as most of us here....and of course contribute in your own way.

To help you get started, I would suggest that you first read up our "Getting Started" section - and don't make the mistake of just skimming thru it like I did (to my regret and chagrin) when I first started here.  Lots of suggestions and outline of our d"ruthers here - which may seem like a lot but is actually quite easy - and rewarding - to observe.

As far as not being able to speak Chinese - don't worry about it - lots of our bros here also don't speak any - but they manage very well in Hong Kong.  Read up some of the great reports here and get a "taste' of what to expect when you do get here - and I'm sure that you will also be able go around famously

Good luck and good posting emorocker!!

SEAJ

errr... the computer doofus that I am.... I tried to access your file...even sgined on to mediafire etc and then tried to upload your video - but of course nothing happened!

Some tips perhaps?

SEAJ
edit Ps - I just noticed that you've got the website address as a JPG pix - why don't you instead just C+P your link to your post and that way we can just point and click to it and we will be directed to it - no?
Further edit - Now when I think of it - I guess yours IS the best way as then it allows for you to RA 30 the link.  GREAT IDEA as to how to accomplish this!

[ Last edited by  SEAJ at 8-1-2011 19:14 ]

I think your experience making new members feel welcome would be a valuable asset here and I hope you feel comfortable nurturing other new member with your general forum experience. Good commentary.

EDIT: I also believe it is a positive that a thread such as this brought a comment like your's out in the open. Bravo!

[ Last edited by  TonyToro at 9-1-2011 10:29 ]

You got the idea bro! It is a bit troublesome to have to type out the URL but the download link should work. I tried attaching a .doc file with the link to make it easy to copy and paste but the forum wouldn't allow such attachments.

[ Last edited by  feliphile at 8-1-2011 20:11 ]