I sometimes go to a certain veggie massage place (Chinese-owned/staffed, but not in HK or China). I see the same masseusse almost every time. Uneventful massage every time. But this most recent time, she rubbed much closer to my inner thighs, and brushed up against my balls a few times. Of course, pretending nothing happened. I got an erection (first time that happened for me when getting a massage from her).

After the flip, she put a towel over the erection, so my penis made a tent from the towel (with the edges of the towel on my two thighs). She pressed the towel down over my thighs (touching only the part of the towel over my thighs, not the central part on my erect penis) and massaged my thighs, and meanwhile, the towel was rubbing against the tip of my erect penis. Rubbing back and forth over it. It felt amazing. I almost came, but I thought that amazingly arousing move was pure accident, so I was polite and somehow managed myself to stop myself from cumming. I didn't want to cause a scene (and a cum spot on the towel) at a veggie sauna where I'm a known customer.

After that tent-thigh-towel-penis tip massage, my masseusse giggled and said, "You ok?" At which point I realized that maybe that part was intentional, and she was trying to get me off! And I felt stupid for not going with it and allowing myself to cum.

Has anyone else gotten the towel-tent indirect handjob at a veggie sauna? Is this a known thing? Again, her hands are only on the edges of the towel, but she is using the center of the towel to stroke the penis.

(I hope this is mongering-related enough to be in Q&A, not Chat? If it's not, you have my apologies.)

Never had the pleasure myself, but
would have had a hard time resisting
the urge. You're such a gent!

1. How often and how many times had you seen her?
2. Do you usually tip her, and how much?
3. Do you chat at all?
4. Did you go for one session or two?

Sounds like she may be wanting to take it a stage
further, at which point your question might be:
Would it be insulting to tip?

About resisting the urge: my first thought was that if I came, I could never set foot in that shop again without giggles about "hey, it's Mr. Shoot His Load During A Massage."

1.  Maybe ten times over the past year, spaced irregularly.

2. Small tip just to be decent. Tips are optional (but not unusual) at this place. The time before the towel-HJ incident I gave a big tip (about 100% of massage price) because when I walked in and asked for her, the manager called her in on her day off (they only told me about it later).

3. She tries to. I try to avoid it. She knows I'm single, so she's always trying to convince me to date/marry one of her friends.

4. One hour.

I hadn't thought about the previous session's big tip thing being the possible cause of in the subsequent session her rubbing the towel on my small tip. Thanks for pointing that out. Actually, I think I can figure out (I think!) the social, political, and economic dynamics of the situation. I'm just trying to figure out the mechanics of the toweled handjob!

By the way, she's not really attractive (overweight, and 5-10 years older than me), so I could imagine her doing this kind of "play" just for fun.

Was wondering test or you going to go back?? You say you have seen a 10 times over the last year, there must be a reason you keep
going back.

The massage is pretty good, and I'm a creature of habit. It's not especially better than a massage I could get at a million other shops, but I'm a creature of habit, and prefer to have familiar hands massaging my groin rather than unfamiliar ones. So, I'll probably go back sometime, but not with any great urgency. I think the story is not all that interesting. I was just wondering whether the towel-tent-rub is a common thing. Maybe it isn't.

go for the mess!

In their industry, they must see everything; its just part of the work.  IMO, nothing to be embarassed about as you are human.

ive never had that happen to me, regarding the towel rub.  But, I am curious on the type of towels used there.  If it was any of the towels at my house, I think there would have been a bloody mess on my penis.  My towels are not that soft.

try putting less detergent & almost no fabric softener, air dry your towels, & do smaller loads. that may soften your towels

Thing about HK is there can be a machine wash but many prefer to hang dry their clothes outside the window.  Those towels might as well be razor blades...

This forum is great, now we are sharing information on washing as well. Apparently if you iron your towels that makes them nice and soft!

Test: I'm surprised you got so worked up by the friction... should have just asked for the HJ, cos that's so on the cards (don't forget to tip).

As for towels at massage places, the combination of fabric softeners, machine wash and air-drying is needed to get rid of the oil and cum. Still, I wouldn't want those towels rubbing away on my sword tip...

There has been some excellent laundry advice on this thread!

The particular towel she was using was a particularly soft one, maybe one she chose for this purpose?

I was gushing precum, so I think I was pretty well-lubricated already.

I don't go for veggie massages often, but if that happened I'd have definitely gone for it!

Whenever they start massaging my thighs and next to my brother I almost always get hard. And if the place it private I sometimes give a little groan and a shuffle around to try to encourage her hands to move closer and closer.

I remember I did that once in Bali and had both a nice veggie massage and a nice happy ending. I gave her a nice big tip. Can't remember how much - it was ages ago.

BM

I went back for another massage, and my questions were answered for me. When I got erect again, she invited me to come to her apartment for dinner. I'd be happy with a handjob from her, but I don't want to date her, or even have sex with her. She wants this to be much more than I want it to be, so I'll leave it as a veggie massage. That towel-tent playing was her way of flirting and trying to fish for more, but some kind of relationship, not just a massage handjob. Some things are best left as they are.

Ah, mystery solved! So she fancied you, eh?


Indeed.

For those of you who were trying to visualize this thing, my towel-handjobbing masseusse looks (while clothed, anyway) exactly like the real pics (not the db pics) of current HG ViVi.

http://forum.sex141.com/eforum/viewthread.php?tid=18779

Was this in the States?  You said Chinese-owned but not in HK or China.