It's not about taking it personally. I just like to have some idea of the environment before I arrive. I've been to places like Prague where the women have no problems being with a black guy. I've also been to Amsterdam, where there are women from all over the world, and some of the women could care less about skin color, and other working girls are blatantly prejudiced and will look away when certain ethnic groups approach them. I understand the occasional rejection, but wholesale rejection against blacks in Hong Kong was what I was concerned about.
I'm a clean cut black guy who is considered good looking by some women. I know how to conduct myself and to be charming, but that doesn't matter when you are dealing with people who are racist. I see member names like "Mandingo" and " Puff Daddy" here, and I therefore assumed they are black. If so, I would like to get there perspective.
"I feel these few threads are invitation to further argurments and discussion..........I smell something not nice....
So no further comment on behalf fo the WGs. you just gotta to try out."
This makes no sense. Why can't someone ask a simple question about ethnicity. It's hardly divisive to ask a simple question.
The person who used the term "blackie"...that is a disrespectful term. This is 2008!